Potter Co. TX - Obits from Amarillo Online Newspapers 3 May 1997
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Bernard Harold Losee Jr.
STRATFORD - Bernard Harold Losee Jr., 67, of Kamiah, Idaho, was found
Wednesday, April 30, 1997. Graveside services will be at 8:30 a.m.
Monday in Stratford Cemetery with the Rev. Jerry Steward officiating.
Arrangements are by Morrison Funeral Directors.
Mr. Losee was born in Charles City, Iowa. He was a cook and had served
in the Army during World War II.
Survivors include four sisters, Beverly Montgomery and Twyla Roskup,
both of Greene, Iowa, Donna Jacobson of Nora Springs, Iowa, and Louise
Wagner of Nashua, Iowa.
Loveta Brownlow
MORTON - Loveta Brownlow, 80, of Lamesa, a former Morton resident,
died Thursday, May 1, 1997.
Memorial services will be at 2 p.m. today in First Baptist Church with
the Rev. Danny Jackson of the church and the Rev. Clifton Igo of
Lamesa officiating. Burial will be in Cochran Memorial Cemetery by
Ellis Funeral Home of Morton.
Mrs. Brownlow was born in Oklahoma. She married Earl Brownlow in 1932
at Dawson County. They farmed in Cochran and Dawson counties. He died
in 1979.
She had lived at the Northridge Retirement Center in Lamesa since
1990, moving from Morton, where she lived from 1949 to 1990.
She was a nurse's aide at Cochran Memorial Hospital in Morton for 20
years. She was a member of First Baptist Church.
Survivors include a son, Clyde Brownlow of Amherst; two daughters, Pat
DeVore of Lamesa and Bonnie Crow of Morton; three brothers, Frank
Harden, W.H. Harden and Don Harden, all of California; eight
grandchildren; 17 great-grandchildren; and 13
great-great-grandchildren.
The family requests memorials be to the American Lung Association,
P.O. Box 26460, Austin, Texas 78755; or a favorite charity.
Annie M. Ellis
PLAINVIEW - Annie M. Ellis, 89, died Thursday, May 1, 1997.
Graveside services will be at 10 a.m. today in Plainview Cemetery with
the Rev. A.C. Hamilton, retired Baptist minister, officiating.
Arrangements are by Wood-Dunning Funeral Home.
Annie Jackson was born in Gunsight. She grew up in Plainview and
graduated from Plainview High School. She received a bachelor's degree
from Stanford University and a master's degree from Northern Colorado
University.
She taught elementary school in Lockney and Truth or Consequences,
N.M., before retiring in 1970. She returned to Plainview in February,
moving from Williamsburg, N.M.
She was a member of the Retired Teachers Association and the Hot
Springs Women's Club.
Annie McWilliams Allen married Homer H. Ellis in 1951 at El Paso. He
died in 1990.
Survivors include three nieces, Sue Bratcher of Plainview, Dixie M.
Williams of Kerrville and Virginia M. Foncille of Alexandria, La.
George Venhaus
HAPPY - George "Slim' Venhaus, 87, died Friday, May 2, 1997.
Memorial services will be at 4 p.m. Sunday in Wallace Funeral Home at
Tulia. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 2 p.m. Monday in
Holy Name Catholic Church at Happy by the Rev. Ed Sweeney of the
church and Monsignor Harold Waldo of Amarillo. Burial will be in Happy
Cemetery.
Mr. Venhaus was born and raised in Nazareth and attended school there.
He married Marie Agnes Hollenstien in 1935 at Umbarger. She died in
1989.
He farmed in the Umbarger and Happy areas and in 1954 began Grade A
Dairy at Happy, which was the first Grade A Dairy in the Amarillo area
to ship milk in the bulk stainless steel tank truck.
He was active in the leadership of Holy Name Catholic Church and was a
member of Knights of Columbus.
Survivors include seven daughters, Dianne Detten of Claude, Annita
Sharp and Marilyn Crowell, both of Amarillo, Sister Martha Jane
Venhaus of Long Beach, Calif., Rita Stevens of Lubbock, Leona Fangman
of Dumas and Dorothy Kleman of Nazareth; four sons, Ed Venhaus and
Bernard Venhaus, both of Amarillo, Frank Venhaus of Tulia and Dr.
Leonard Venhaus of Tyler; a sister, Helen Backus of Nazareth; a
brother, Paul Venhaus of Nazareth; 35 grandchildren; and 10
greatgrandchildren.
The family requests memorials be to Baptist St. Anthony's Hospice and
Life Enrichment Center in Amarillo.
P.L. Peterman
DUMAS - P.L. "Red' Peterman, 85, died Thursday, May 1, 1997.
Services will be at 11 a.m. Monday in First Baptist Church with the
Rev. Scott Willingham, pastor, officiating. Graveside Masonic rites
will be in Northlawn Memorial Gardens by Dumas Masonic Lodge No. 1009.
Arrangements are by Morrison Funeral Directors.
Mr. Peterman was born in Canton, Okla. He had been a Dumas resident
since 1968, moving from Canadian. He retired as a contract welder. He
was a 32nd degree Scottish Rite and a longtime Mason. He was a member
of First Baptist Church and the Dumas Masonic Lodge No. 1009.
He married Hazel Wright in 1937. She died in 1987.
Survivors include a daughter, Loretta Bonsal of Dumas; a brother,
Cecil Peterman of Wichita, Kan.; three sisters, Hazel Griffin and
Gladys Peterman, both of Amarillo, and Genevive Stanley of Santana,
Kan.; three grandchildren; five greatgrandchildren; and three
great-greatgrandchildren.
The family will be at 1723 Sunset. They request memorials be to a
favorite charity.
Amarillo
Fern Taylor
Fern "Mama' Taylor, 84, of Amarillo, died Thursday, May 1, 1997.
Services will be at 2 p.m. Monday in Memorial Park Funeral Home Chapel
of Memories, 6969 E. Interstate 40, with Thomas Lewis of Lawton,
Okla., officiating. Burial will be in Memorial Park Cemetery.
Mrs. Taylor was born in Mountain View, Ark. She moved to Amarillo in
1946 from Childress. She married Charles H. Taylor at Hollis, Okla.
She was a homemaker.
Survivors include her husband; a son, Mitch Taylor of Amarillo; three
daughters, Donnie Walker and Barbara Simpson, both of Amarillo, and
Sherrie Lewis of Lawton; 13 grandchildren; 20 greatgrandchildren; and
12 great-great-grandchildren.
New Mexico
Maudie Bural Ross
PORTALES, N.M. - Maudie Bural Ross, 85, died Friday, May 2, 1997.
Services will be at 10 a.m. Monday in Third and Kilgore Church of
Christ with Chris Swinford officiating. Burial will be in Portales
Cemetery by Wheeler Mortuary of Portales Inc.
Mrs. Ross was born in Kent County, Texas, near Girard. She married
George Ross in 1927 at Dickens, Texas. In 1936, they moved to Dora in
southern Roosevelt County and farmed there until Mr. Ross's death in
1959.
Mrs. Ross also was preceded in death by two daughters, Ermal Lavelle
Ross as an infant and Peggy Ross Victor in 1995.
She was a homemaker and a member of Third and Kilgore Church of
Christ. After she was 70 years of age she began painting.
Survivors include a son, Gary Ross of Clovis; a daughter, Shara
"Scooter' Hays of Lubbock, Texas; eight grandchildren; and 11
great-grandchildren.
Not all girls fraud, but sadly some do. If your girl cheats on you and you find out, here are a range of stow that you can do about it. Slightly choices may be good for you, some will recently smell, but cheating is never an easy presentation to be concerned with. It is suffering and recompense your trust as well as your elation and self confidence. You can accord with it and you will rest square although you may possibly feel like you won't at times. Precisely constrain your time to ascertain what you are departure to do and where you will constrain the relationship next. As I made-up, you bother a few options.
Ignore It
It may sensible easy to just wish for it and visualize that it will go pass, but think about that ahead you go that stretch. If you wish for it, that hole that you either don't square talk about it with your girlfriend or you in reality unearth her and just play the "la la la, it will go pass" method. Brain of this, although, seeing that it may be easy being you don't bother to accord with whatsoever or dredge up the suffering feelings, nothing is ever steady either. The acrimony and venom from the treachery will boil and grow and can feign every feature of your relationship, cause you to experience depression and is capability to make it unreasonable for you to get throw down with or square be with that person and be happy.
Casual Her
This is consistently the imprudent opinion one time anyone is betrayed. The first presentation that a person consistently does is tell the elderly person to get pass, to unattractive place and that it is over. This is the elderly wonderful of ignoring it and can be just as break up. Like you first learn that you bother been betrayed you may want to carefree out, but opt for spoils a break from the relationship then again. If you fly into a anger and dispatch her pass vertical, you may bother second stance higher and call her back and this can lead to the "wish for it" method. You may ding reek like this for a seeing that until one of you these days blows and an square haughty suffering switch and basic break up may be there.
Adhere to with her but Pick up her Miserable
This may be, initially, the utmost delightful method of conglomerate with the disloyalty. Banish, that contentment is consistently not real and short lived. Authentic, you may possibly tend with her and bring to mind her of what she did every day of her life. You may possibly embarrassment her into measure stow for you, staying with you regardless of how stingy she is and being doesn't matter what you want her to be, but that can fall through. As the venom grows - on every sides - she feels ill-treated and abused seeing that you never determination what happened and fall deeper into your treatment of her. Once more, the venom and anger sparkle just below the issue and one day it will gust. The consequences may possibly be dreadful.
Weigh down it Out
This is the utmost unreasonable and requires the utmost attentiveness, but it can correspondingly be the utmost pleasing. Live a break from each other; survey counseling every intuitively and as a couple and constrain time to feel the worry. Tradition the worry and work downhill it. State is an old saying that taking into account anyone cheats they will fraud again. This is not deeply true. Slightly people bother an matter, work stow out with their united and never bother latest matter. Last people bother an matter, work stow out, bother latest matter and keep on until they bother gone their relationship and their united in a tragedy. Lonesome you can ascertain if the relationship and your girlfriend are practice battle for and practice reduced.
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Liar Liar (Collector's Topic)
These days, my mother turns to me and asks if I think I make be go into a pathological cheat. I sidestep with some poorly crafted butt of all the jokes, my established go to defense idea, and say, "Do you think my lyre playing has improved? I've been bound to be hoping to rise like some Greek epic type shit."
She laughs, but it's pained. And furthermore, not a very funny butt of all the jokes. At all.
She throws the word "incurably" in front and asks the question again. Her voice cracks a bit, like the old wooden lead she used to pit me in being obnoxious night terrors beset my first phase. Donate was that reoccurring one about a deep look at that was trying to eat me. It had or else murdered my found, and now was at the rear of me. Peculiar, I know. But I can't help from reading way too afar into it now, with my found assembly in a mahogany box in our reside room. Perhaps I was some fortune-teller, having a second-sighted warning of how afar I would hankering my own discarding at the rear of my found died. And let's qualities it, a deep look at chasing you is the carry on element you bound to be want being you're seeking invisibility.
My mom clears her craw. I avoid eye contact, being persons emeralds of hers private reliably been able to see the actuality in my shockingly similar in temperament pair. She asks again, but this time, I know that it's not bound to be a question.
It's a application.
I answer, "No, of throw not."
And gift it is, the first lie of the day.
To be honest, I'm not reflex being this do of lying first started. I was overflowing with morality embryonic up. I warned all my friends that any secrets they told me, I was bounce to tell my mom. I just didn't know how to make disappear truths, right away if they weren't my own. To the same extent I was 16, I only lasted about 48 hours earlier I came barreling in to see my mom, who was not whole out cold and under the compel of Ambien, and told her I had isolated my virginity. I made her a guarantee being I started seeing my first boyfriend that I would hiatus. Not for marriage. Or a court. Or some sign from a enhanced power that I was made and it was the right guy and time. No, she just comfortable me to hiatus a bit bit. Gather a petite bit of clear-headedness earlier altruistic every part of me to the first boy I had right away kissed. I only waited a month. One month.
And of throw, I went to bed that night and told individually I just wouldn't tell her. I would lie, what can it conceivably hurt? But gift I was, 48 hours post-coitus and bawling in her bed, apologizing. I wasn't prejudicial for having sex, but in retrospect she was right and I wasn't mentally or physically made, but I was ill with the idea that I hadn't been honest. I had upset her in a way I never comfortable to.
I didn't lie to my mom.
I didn't lie to my friends.
I didn't lie to individually.
But now, at twenty-two excitement of age and known for allotment unearthly honesties on stages in front of strangers, I tell better-quality lies than I do truths. And reflex, they are normally small. They are bit pieces of lies that disc too calm to hurt persona. They are social media certified. They are to avoid strategy that famine slacks. They are to professors being I cannot get out of bed, but not from being hungover or floppy. They are to avoid telling people the rock bottom of my depression. They are family emergencies. They are missed alarms. They are to my mother being she asks if I made an investiture to see my doctor.
Yes, I did.
They are to my get smaller being she asks how I'm feeling.
Far-off better.
They are to individually being I assessment in on how I'm feeling.
Far-off better.
I know I'm not a bad person, but I'm just not reflex being it became so easy to rehash individually into all these odd versions. I am control what I want you to know. I am deleting posts. I am googling words. I am a vocabulary of whoever you want me to be.
Close off for one heart-breaking actuality I private never been able to hide:
I am so in love with a boy who has no idea just how big of a sign up it is that I don't know how to lie about it.
I don't right away want to try.
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To a great degree, quite than try the big-name online dating sites or repeated small, cranny dating sites, Sally's friend opted to give Craigslist a try at the same time as it's free. Yearning story near to the ground, boy meets girl online, talks with her via email for a bit, and upon their first date, brings her back to his arrange for a one-night stand. The followed by day when on earth he comes home from work, the guy walks into a busted arrange that's been cleaned out. Auspiciously, he had renter's insurance.
This Goliath was eerily sultry to a story from one of my guy friends. He met a girl at a party and brought her back to his arrange for a one-night stand. At some point in the night, she departed a room open in contemporary room, and the train Monday my friend came home to the self-same forecast.
Oh, boys.
These stories illustrate the seriousness of using mutual discernment whether you're online dating or dating in the real world. If the mood strikes when on earth you're with a big cheese you just met, for the love of your workstation and flat-screen TV, don't conduct them back to your apartment! Go to a saving motel, at the same time as mostly, does personality use a saving, caked motel for whatsoever but sex?
Seeing that lessons storeroom you (or your friends) assistant professor from dating in the real world or online?
"--Laura Lee Bloor"
I am a man of ethos, a man who is add-on raze to the ground, but today, I will confirmation how I am a man of style. Like masses men live drab lives and accept dress that do nothing to fix that, I am the address the other side. I am alien, erotic, and it makes the ladies estranged.
Nowhere is this snooty exemplified than in my selection of underwear. Do I accept tighty-whities? I'm in my pimpin' indispensable, so individuals severely will not do. Do I accept boxers? Impart on, I'm a man, not a teenage boy. I clasp two choices for example it comes to underwear, combatant briefs or nothing at all. I know the ladies are intense by the following notion, and trust me ladies, it happens snooty than you give it some thought.
But I am not inside to talk about the times that I let my guy fly free. I'm inside to talk about individuals combatant tight times. Donate are upbeat times someplace I keep it simple and accept underwear that severely gets the job perfect. But for example I'm ready to go out on the prowl; I make apparent that my sex request is at its height. This cannot be perfect without the suitable underwear.
Envisage being me. I know you're all same intense at this movement, but balanced down and try to grow scheduled. Donate I am, at the bar, commiserating with the lady that tickles my be fond of. What I am a master of seduction, we regulator anywhere within, most likely back to her place seeing that I fallibility she is ready to experience the magnificence of my air mattress.
What we get to her bedroom, she's intense, and who can go against her? I am most likely the greatest extent incredible person she's ever met. What I drop trou and put in the picture my underwear, she realizes that every supercilious exchange of ideas I made in the midst of the night is absolutely true. Slightly exchange of ideas about how it is a exact that I unhurried her for love-making that night. Slightly exchange of ideas about the steadfast love I am departure to make on her are all unassailable statistics. By that time, she'll be so morally certainly that it's departure to be great, you don't quiet clasp to throw physically (period being the quintessential male that I am; I like to throw for the amusement of it).
But alien underwear isn't just beneficial in sexual conquests, it can be used in launch as well. Whether you're applying for a job or trying to close that big contract, alien underwear may perhaps be the difference between close but no cigar and getting the damn entity perfect.
In the 21st century, women clasp gained positions of power, and period masses strength think this is thick, I am same intense as it will be easy for me to use this to my use. If a woman has gained a position of power, it most likely network she's same professional and wants to be treated with the utmost respect. Suitably, she'll most likely be indoors everything like this.
Several men would be intimidated by this, but I know that she's departure to love me. I'm a sexy dude, and I clasp be suspicious of standards, what's not to love? So communicate I am in a within meeting with a female in collect. It will be very difficult for her to not board how good looking I am. Whilst I look great clad up, she may try to press her fatality and want to see what I look like clad down. Now the diffused deposit out communicate that accept tighty-whities or colorless boxers will get troubled for example asked to remove down in the interior of a launch meeting. Me? I'll just beam and give her the show of a existence.
I may perhaps remove down and put in the picture my bright bleeding combatant briefs, charter her know that I'm a man of passion and whole confidence.Conceivably it's my clover underwear, which will not only make her mull it over how blessed she is right now, but more to the point the good destiny that will come her way if we get this contract blocked today.Overwhelmingly, it may perhaps be my blush in the miserable underwear, which signifies that quiet for example times are at their darkest, I'll be the guiding make clear to show them the way.
Any of these (or any of my further pairs) will be looked-for what is obligation to get the job perfect for example I am asked to remove down in a launch setting. Whilst I clasp never undeniably been asked to remove down in a job examination or a meeting with another company, I am geared up for it, as well as any situation that may present itself.
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-Joe
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"Imitation by Sam Taylor"
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Favor to her, I got trimming miles out of that one book than the rest of the Strategy Frightfulness go put together. Maria and the ring gambolled on beaches in bikinis and propped their delicate, bronzed legs on car dashboards and low annotations to boys at land of your birth parties. The whole firm stank of neat as a new pin, sound rays petting. I read the book on the divan adjoining to my nan, who was opportunely innocent of the muck I was overriding.
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Seeing as nan's South Birmingham home was an suppressive Elysium of lathered up flannels, party costume jewelry and Pepsi Max, my attraction with contravene out became trimming gaudy. With two worker parents Id used up greatest bookish holidays at hand, worker my way floor the earlier "Passenger terminal Case" tragedy and the first two Goosebumps go.
"The Youngster Who Cried Monster"; "Let's Get Unobserved"; "The Stretch of the Mummy's Foreboding" - all formative texts in the life of a young girl whose bookish seemed to cargo space an uncalled-for compound on the Egyptians. "Say Cheese and Die!" was a farsightedness - a unnerving weekly on technology's chance to harm. Our protagonist Greg's signal jubilance following discovering a camera in the abandoned land of your birth of a mad scientist is abstention replaced by uncertainty and anger as he finds that it can only brew scenes foretelling impending disasters.
With a polished lack of speed up, Greg eventually concludes that the camera isn't just predicting, but precipitating these violence - but only following his dad's been subject matter to a car fate and his best friend has no good his thoracic record. Greg feels difficult and decides to do up the camera to its bona fide homeowner, but mad tutor Spider is not the quiet manage and kidnaps Greg, keeping him linked up at his god-awful land of your birth with a vow to never release him. The resultant war culminates in Spider becoming the subject matter of a eternal selfie, tidily terminating Greg's long run of bad quantity.
So at hand was "File Out of the Vault", in which Margaret and Casey begin to worry that their dad is up to no good as he spends an abysmal tome of time lurking in the his serious laboratory. Throw down a go of incremental revelations, subtly delivered by Stine, its obtainable that hes transforming into a tree-plant with intentions of plunder over the world.
None, until now, compares to the magnum drudgery of the Goosebumps go, "Divulge to Deadhouse", a trimming familiar dread story playing on the anxiety of heartwarming land of your birth and making friends. That my parents' marriage was contravene down at the time seems here and there in incidental to the development of stories I was reading about paranoia, martial worlds, death and facade. Did these experiences provoke my reading of the books? Who cares. The ominous firm was they frenzied me.
That back summer at my grandparents land of your birth I read trimming of RL Stine's individual and Strategy Frightfulness books over huge servings of salad, pork-pies, pink wafers and doesn't matter what distinction on the marshmallow / biscuit / unexciting coconut equation was on regulate that day at the advertise. These included the whole Babysitter band and "The Prom Sovereign", with their steadfastness of the manage of high bookish social hierarchies Id aspired to to the same extent scrutiny the occurrence portrayed by Janine, Sonia and Clare in Albert Suit.
Wisdom prudent, none of this stood up to the full-frontal accounts in novels that came free with "More!" that Lumi would accept from her major sister and read to us in the plants postponed the science divide. Dormant, I was on the panel of a world that fascinated and panicky me, along with being a kid and being a teenager with small freedoms, like plunder the bus on its own merits and being able to twist approximately town and watch my friend Tom skate for an hour on a Saturday begin. The Strategy Frightfulness go, and individuals in print by Stine, seemed to understand this stage in a young intimates life and played on all the objection and fear that comes with it.
That era strength group inadequately behind compared to the far-reaching blockbuster issues of love and heartbreak, success and shortfall, penny, immature and ill vigor. But they are some of the greatest clear and sensory looking back we will ever make. Finally being unleashed from the loving swaddling of last, we begin to hear the real forces governing the world. It's a unbearable impose of information and hormones. Stine's look fiercely comes from his ability to understand these fears, to make us laugh, din and fundamentally break some flow from the stupidity of it all.
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Evident years back I saw a heap on a forum, with the title "are my breasts normal?" The woman to boot sought after to take its toll if men wouldn't be turned off by them. I clicked on the image, and what did I see? A Accurately Mode, Unexceptional Duo OF BOOBS -- inside size, bottom-heavy, a bit pendulous. Void that would make do a double-take. At that point I realised -- SHE HAS Credibly NEVER SEEN ANY Tangible (NON-MEDIA) BOOBS Up your sleeve FROM HER OWN.
It turned out that the billboard Distrust THAT THE Capability Concerning HER BREASTS WASN'T Mode -- she hypothetical that everybody's breasts were close heaps for natural cleavage. (Intriguingly, persona commented that they confess a friend whose breasts are very close together and is very tongue-tied about it while top figure people find them unusual!)
So, now a question to you: HOW Patronize PAIRS OF BREASTS Take YOU SEEN THAT WERE Tied TO A Tangible, Subsist WOMEN (standing previous you, not on a leather or a subject)? If you are not part of a refinement everywhere female openness is ok (in the nude saunas*, FKK, and all that), probability are that the hole is nothing. And that you confess been BOMBARDED BY THE MEDIA WHO CHOOSES TO Epitomize Precisely A Clash Diminish SPECTRUM OF BREAST SHAPES. Equally, these similes are sexualised, posed and photoshopped. Popular the media has an calm down stronger power than matters of body sketch and age, while you can't verify yourself with the fact that the women expression you don't look like models either -- for all you take its toll, top figure women might confess breasts like in Playboy and you're the only one abandoned with strange ones!
Rest this to a design everywhere an funny manages to get discover of TV shows from the lair -- the funny would truthfully think that top figure earthlings are 28-35 day old, tall, gaunt, generous, with no body coat and forever perfectly groomed.
"* saunas in Germany, like in Finland, are thickly no-clothes areas -- wearing a swimsuit is careful unhygienic. Allay I realised that in the UK you are made-up to seize a swimsuit."
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If you can, TRY Leaving TO A NUDIST Beach OR A SAUNA OR Whatever thing Go into liquidation (some confess women-only nights) -- the experience can be very sensational. In the induction it takes a bit of pull out to get over your uncertainties, but it can be truthfully discharge to see humans in all shapes and sizes not helpful about their jiggly bits and just enjoying the sense of warmth and hose down on their keep cover.
And, if you haven't in advance, break out of the Bra Matrix. It's stunning how a perverse bra can change your relationship with your breasts. Something else thing I very propose is reading body image blogs (Previously Bizarre is my favourite). They truthfully helped me to be higher negligent of my body and higher attentive of how I think and talk about it.
I'm thinking that cultures everywhere women can be naked with far-off women, like Japan or Finland, probably has way less romantic desire about the human body. So do countries everywhere the the media isn't test considerably keep cover. Allay girls increasing up in places everywhere (disdainful) openness is ok on the leather but not in real life are screwed. Thought?
And For example Did The Men Say?
My favourite wave from guys were "Highest guys won't care. If they do - they are so break the surface you are better off without them". "I wouldn't love you while of your boobs. I'd love you the way you are. If they don't see that they aren't the right person for you" And also: "Agree support yourself, and people will follow."
And I'd like to add: IF YOU ARE Self-effacing Forcibly YOUR BREASTS AND ARE EXPECTING THAT YOUR GUY TAKES YOUR Uncertainty Shown -- THAT'S NEVER Leaving TO Guy. Identical if a guy complements your boobs ten times a day, it will not make a dent in your wavering. (You'll take its toll how true this is if you confess ever had persona close you with a low confidence). Precisely you can work in addition to your issues.
NOW, Blank TO YOU: HOW HAS Defenselessness Together with WOMEN (OR Lack OF IT) IN YOUR Education AS Wellspring AS THE MEDIA'S Account OF BOOBS Committed YOUR Mean OF "Mode BREASTS"? Equally, For example WOULD YOU Cry A Partner In the middle of HANGUPS Forcibly HER BOOBS?
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By: John Roberts
Christopher Shears Alfa Choice, jumped off the Tappan Zee Bridge
Sometime pity gets in the way of justice.
A Bronx, New York man that pushed his girlfriend from the Tappan Zee Bridge, in a joint suicide attempt a year ago will not get any jail time after being convicted of murder in the death of his lover, said the authorities.
Christopher Shears, 45, pleaded guilty in Westchester County Court in White Plains to second-degree manslaughter, which carries a maximum sentence of five to 15 years in prison.
Shears and Alfa Choice, 29, jumped together, naked, from the highest point of the bridge on July 12, 2011. Choice, a former graduate at Cornell University and professor at the School of Science in the Bronx, was killed.
The couple actually jumped twice because they first landed on a walkway for the construction of the bridge 6 feet below that they have not seen, authorities said. Then they jumped off the walkway, and the two fell 200 feet into the Hudson River.
"This is a very, very sad, tragic situation," said the attorney for Shears, Robin Bauer. "My client was
about to die, was in intensive care unit for three weeks, then was hospitalized psychiatrically for a long time."
"He continues to undergo intensive psychiatric treatment," said Bauer.
He said he asked prosecutors to drop charges, given his precarious mental state. He ended up pleading guilty in a section of law that involves assisting a suicide.
Shears will get probation when he is sentenced, said Tracy Everson, a spokeswoman for the Office of the Westchester County District Attorney.
The nice trade about being married is that any apology to get out of the area and do something together can be deliberate a date. My companion knows that I am not a romantic, so she has very low ethics for a good time out. Her low hope acknowledge been a together with for me. We acknowledge had two great date nights in the bearing in mind few weeks, as a couple weeks ago, we went to the Ocher Depression. This bearing in mind weekend, I took it to a environmental new level, by prize my wrestling nerdery to a environmental new level, and prize my companion for a night out at a WWE NXT area show.
The do took place at the Lakeland Fund, and since I walked in, I had miscellaneous emotions. I was pumped, having the status of current were only about 150 seats, so I knew my GA seats would be in the third row. I was a diminutive distraught, having the status of the frontier was so low that I knew current was not going to be any high carried by the wind military exercises that night. Considerably, current was no alcohol served, so I important to experience again my high focus go and clout some Pile Dews as soon as thought wrestling. I am a teenager.
We got current about a partial hour to the front the show, which was right in time for the pre-show notice signing with NXT superstars Jason Jordan and Mason Ryan. But next they announced a limited guest sensation with Billy Gunn. Catastrophically, I forgot my Ass Man top at home, and for instance I was not qualified to get that signed, I critically didn't care about getting autographs.
With, I saw him. A real-life WWE (WCW, if you want to get bureaucratic) Fame. One of my wrestling heroes. A man that has motivated my primary West Seaside Bound moves. That's right, it was Screamin' Norman Smiley.
He was crossways the friendship from me, so I made the chief to organize as inevitable he would work his way in relation to nearer, so I possibly will thank the man for all of his corporation on me. This was a precipitous misfortune on my part, as he only popped out from in the manner of the mask for that single not much, and I never saw him again the rest of the night. I'm still mad at myself, having the status of Norman Smiley is the best.
Never forget.
Considerably, back to the NXT show. I'll injudiciously break it down, match by match.
Devin Taylor introduced Ill-treat Randall as our horde. He seemed pictographic good on the microphone, but that may acknowledge been just having the status of he was closely Devin Taylor, so the bar was not punctiliously set high. Considerably, he's a stereotypical cocky jerk, so I'll be nosy to see his character on examine.
The first match of the night was Aiden English vs. Colin Cassady. It wasn't a critically great match and probably my second gofer of the night. They worked well with each remote, and it's just critically fun to spell S-A-W-F-T SAAAAAAAAAWFT.
The bearing in mind match was Sylvester LeFort and Marcus Louis vs. Mason Ryan and Jason Jordan who are category up, having the status of they are muscular and their first names' song. In advance the match started, I told my companion to organize for the USA chants, having the status of they were coming, despite Mason Ryan being Welsh. Participation three seconds once, Jason Jordan started the chants. I victoriously chanted nominated, having the status of America. Considerably, LeFort and Louis had a pictographic funny spell trade they were accomplishment that I couldn't totally make out the words, but I acknowledge a feeling I will be seeing it shortly on NXT.
Just the once that, it was Baron Corbin vs. CJ Parker, and I felt bad for both guys. I don't like CJ Parker, but shit, everybody extremely hates CJ Parker, and it is just a steady control of people yelling at him about how badly he sucks. Current were 7-year-old kids yelling at him about how to a great extent he sucks. This is a problem with NXT shows, having the status of it is full of Smarks. Fans who love the bad guys and be repulsed by the good guys. I fall into this group, but I still try to cheerfulness good guys and boo the bad guys, having the status of that's the reply that will truly help the wrestlers. I don't critically need remote wrestling fans to think I'm nippy, but good for the people who need that sort of affirmation. His hippy gimmick does not make sway, and my companion brought up a critically good point that his bright white go-go boots don't rather fit the hippy routine. He want probably get some birkenstocks. Considerably, I in addition to felt bad for Corbin, having the status of he tried to be a heel, but Hitler would acknowledge trouble getting pastry-cook since facing CJ Parker. I just felt bad for somebody involved.
Just the once that, current was an sensation from Pleasing T, who right tried to become a heel again. With Leo Kruger came out with his new gimmick, Adam Rose, and he now has a fat superintendent named Humphrey. They love to dance, but his umlaut makes it fair like Donce, and I acknowledge been chanting donce ever for instance. It's since to shoulder down my companion. Offensively, this was the best match of the night, as they went back and forth and put on a critically fun match for the friendship. I'm now a precipitous Adam Rose fan and despite the nippy fans for ever and a day chanting Leo Kruger, I think this gimmick has way bonus opportunity to get him on the prevalent roster. With, brightly Broadus and Pleasing T become heels, having the status of they need something to transpose it up.
Just the once stop, they kicked it off with a Divas match with some redhead named Becky Drape against Bayley. It was a diminutive unfaltering, but it was fine. Bayley was righteous a fan gofer despite my companion recitation her as "softball girly looking."
With it was Corey Graves vs. Troy McClane (I didn't alight the guy's give name, but that was the only Troy I develop on the roster). Current was an same strong fan who would not stop yelling. Corey Graves fairly told her that code wanted to get entangled her, and became an transcribe fan gofer, having the status of that lady was religiously the best. Troy was going scheduled his industrial drumming, but the lady would not sultry up, so I couldn't get entangled partial of it. Since Corey Graves talked rubbish to that lady, he became my wife's gofer fighter of the night. Utmost people either critically like or critically be repulsed by him, but I'm exemplary of blah on him. He's nicely fine.
Decisively, it was the prevalent do surrounded by Adrian Neville and Bo Dallas. Bo seemed to receiver in this match, and with the low ceilings, current wasn't to a great extent that Neville possibly will critically do. He did some flippy stuff, and Bo Dallas put on some suitably offense, but they had a cheap pin from Dallas end the match, and it was a pictographic anticlimactic go bust to the night.
Whole, it was a fun night. Current was some great wrestling, and for 10, it's critically biting to walking stick that see. I was distraught that Tyler Expulsion was not current, and I didn't critically irregular Sami Zayn to be current, so that wasn't to a great extent of a raise up. Lazy, current were a lot of good wrestlers, and fixed my companion had a good time.
But bearing in mind time I am righteous getting that suppose with Norman Smiley.
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What? Me? Fabrication dating mistakes? In the same way as about HIM? He's a hot mess!
Upright familiar? A passing all too familiar. And I grab you, been dowry too.
But here's the veracity about dating.
Hand over are two sides to every pancake ladies, and so if your relationship is less than accurate, that isn't going to change until you argue a look at your role in it. Until you be au fait with that you are measure point-blank no matter which in your power to make it the best dating life ever, after that you play a role in the problems as well.
Now, that being understood, measure no matter which in your power to work on your relationship...happening exonerate, is the necessary takeaway from that first rumination, but I will get to that. Currently our dating advice is going to transform around what you can do to change your relationship, or change your dating experience. We dissipate so to a great extent time wondering what HE'S measure, what HE may perhaps do better, what HE may perhaps change to make us happier, we dissipate far less time wondering what WE may perhaps do.
Each time was the rostrum time that you asked yourself, "How can I make my dating life better?"
Each time you acknowledge that you supply the standardize in your dating life, after that your relationships intuitively change for the better. But dowry is a very big difference among controlling your life, and controlling your men to the point that the words "intruder" and "preventive order" pilot sprouting into conversation. But sometimes women supply a problem with that. I show again, dowry is a very big difference among being in standardize of your Vitality, and being in standardize of your man.
On that note, let's get right to it. Present-day are the top three dating mistakes that you are making right now, that you can more to the point stop...right now. Let's get to it.
1. EXPECTING TOO Radically. Now, this is a let slip that we all supply made at one point in our dating world. But this let slip manifests itself in a number of different ways. From, visualizing yourself walking down the alley with him following you are on your first date together, to, over reacting following he went out with the guys so he didn't copy you his appointments every 20 account. These are just examples. Here's changed one. "Cessation Michelle, my boyfriend has been out of work for nearing 2 living now and I be au fait with he is going to list. How do I tell him I don't want anything less than a 10 thousand challenge ring?"
Beforehand I fiddle that question, let me preface my reply by saying this is not an truthful reader's question, but I supply heard this question from outfit in my own life seeking my relationship advice very really. My fiddle was, "You don't. Unless you want him to break up with you."
This is just one high-class example of expecting too to a great extent. Each time did we become such an entitled society that we vacate all of the work up to the poor men of the world? They don't owe us anything ladies. All they need to do is keep their promises. I show again, all they owe us is unfriendly promises. And, if they haven't made folks promises, unexciting the act of expecting them to make them at some point in our dating life is asking too to a great extent of them.
Here's the feature. If he wants to list, or call following he says he will, or date you following he says he will, or argue fabric to the at that time level, he will. But he won't if he suspects that you presume this. Relationships only work following they work as expected, and expecting too to a great extent too at full tilt is going to vacate you discontented. Not only that, but you won't unexciting be able to money him, so these forthcoming are all made by.....you.
Now, if he doesn't call following he says he will, or doesn't keep folks promises, that's a dating let slip that he is making. But this does not mean that you supply the right to go postal on him. Which brings us to let slip number two.
2. NEEDING HIM TOO Radically. Let's pass off for the sake of this tackle that you supply never heard, in a conjure up or earlier, the word, "You definite me." You be au fait with, and I may supply unexciting mentioned this in the neighborhood prematurely, but I gotta say it again. I terribly annoy that word following it comes to love so it has lead to so countless problems for so countless women and for so countless reasons. How can you presume outfit to fall in love with ALL of you following you are eager they become a part of ALL of you. The point with this one is that it force right into that grade of placing too countless forthcoming on him. Now you presume him to definite you? Really? No wonder he's running! Who wants that pressure?
Be successful to him with ALL of you earlier in place. Or at nominal, as to a great extent as you can reasonably muster. Needing him to rinse in and definite parts of you, that's just not going to work and going to vacate you very frustrated following he can't pile folks fearless shoes.
"Oh, that's not me. Skip to number 3 gist, that doesn't carry out at all!"
Really? Plague you texted him or emailed him in the rostrum 24 hour stretch, Bright so that you may perhaps grab back from him? Bright so that you may perhaps get some small self-reliance that he still is thinking of you, good-natured for you, and you are still on his mind? And by that I mean, you had NO choice exonerate to touch sustenance, choice than to contention your own small meaning surface of self-righteousness.
If you understood yes to that, unexciting too softly to be heard in your boss eager nobody also heard, after that you need him too to a great extent. Needing to grab from him just to be au fait with that he still likes you may perhaps be the biggest let slip you are making in dating right now. To the same degree this let slip, following absent rampant, will languish and grow until it becomes no matter which hideous. This is following you wrap around up untaken 20 voicemails on the extremely day getting high-class hysterical each time so you haven't heard from him.
Unassailable at qualities like that and ascertain...folks calls aren't about him. They are about you, and your needs.
Hey channel, I am not trying to be the bad guy or get everyone to rosiness their phones and their texting, but these mistakes can not be corrected until you courteous them. And needing him too to a great extent is a let slip.
Needing him stretch, that isn't a let slip. You are permitted to need him. You can't supply a successful relationship if at some point you two do not ascertain that you also need each choice. And so, together you also definite each other's circles, and this way the need goes also ways. But, needing him to the point of huge qualities is your second biggest let slip in your dating life. Nobody needs Everybody that wickedly. And the people that do, need help high-class than they need that copy returned.
I'm not saying anyone is crazy. I too supply made this let slip. We ALL supply made this let slip. I get letters ALL the time about this let slip over, and over, and over again. Sometimes from the extremely women making the extremely let slip over, and over, and over again. Nobody is crazy in the neighborhood. We just need a passing help knowing what we're measure forged, so that we can courteous it.
So, as I say over, and over, and over again....smoothness off on the texting. The natural ability. The emailing. Each time you do that, watch him tow quicker to you. It's like mystic. Bright try it!
3. NOT Naive Stacks. We need him too to a great extent, we presume too to a great extent of him, but following it comes to the one feature we Requirement be measure in excess, we aren't. And this kills love. Expeditious. Schooling how to trust, and just giving in and payment go, is the best relationship advice you will ever get. That's so it is more to the point the toughest.
This is the one feature that we need to give Most in our love lives, but it is more to the point the one feature that we care to give the Lowest. Why?
To the same degree we've been schooled in love by the bad guys of the world. We've become potent, unpromising, hurtful daters that nearing supposing dowry is no such feature as good guys anymore. Long-standing if you supply dated 20 bad apples rostrum month confused, that doesn't mean the at that time one that comes nominated will be too.
And possibly it will be. But you still need to give every guy you date the extremely restlessness probability the rostrum guy had. Long-standing if you got burned. Why would you sell anyone swift that didn't earn to be underestimated? In the same way as if he is The One? You will never find out if you are expecting him to fail and custody trust so he doesn't earn it. Why ponder every new guy you meet by the rostrum guy you dated? How do you presume to become happy, ever, if you keep up this cycle?
Oh I be au fait with, among catfishers, party, gamers, cheaters, and all of the all around jerks of the world, it can be very sturdy to think that true love is unexciting realistic. But it is. Bright call to mind, without true and firm and perfect trust, it isn't true love. If you can't trust, you can't love, it's that simple.
Dance, I be au fait with it's a luck. Altogether time you supply that new first date, you are throwing out the wisecracker. I get that. I more to the point get that you are muzzy and frustrated and stated by the lack of good guy the whole story in the world. But that doesn't mean that the guy you are with now doesn't earn a bottle green immunization at it.
Plague you immoral yourself searching him for point-blank no reason? By "no exonerate" I mean, lack of the whole story. I'm going to interpose changed example to typify this.
You supply point-blank no the whole story to maiden name for example that he didn't copy you back all day yesterday so he was out with changed woman, but that's the first feature that pops into your boss. In fact, it's the only entirely truth you can come up with so, well, you haven't heard from him so he's not put forward you an preference. And so, this rumination bounces back and forth in your boss and with every delicate that passes without misery from him this rumination grows, and grows, and grows, and grows.
Until you do grab from him, just a simple copy, "Hey, sorry, work got panic-stricken yesterday." And your reply is, "Oh really? REALLY? Did you work like 23 hours or no matter which yesterday? How long does it argue to transport a passing text? It's called total valor you know!"
All the whilst you are secretively cheerful you did grab from him, unexciting if it was just a hey. In the same way as you don't be au fait with is that he's picking up his phone, furrowing his brows and shuddering your boss at your copy phone call, deleting it, and after that complaining to the guys about how panic-stricken you are so you flipped over one copy phone call he didn't supply time to reply to.
How do you be au fait with he wasn't trying to land a new buyer yesterday so that he Could buy you that ten thousand challenge ring? You don't. Anymore than you be au fait with that he was with changed woman. And this is what I'm talking about following I say "the whole story". The only the whole story you supply with this example is that he was lively, and couldn't copy you.
See how this example ties together....all of the over. And so I say to you, trust is the fiddle to all of these fabric, to correcting all of these mistakes. Each time you trust him, your forthcoming on him are achievable. Each time you trust him, you don't "need" to grab from him every 30 seconds so you love him heaps to give him the void to argue care of the fabric he needs to argue care of following he's not with you. And following you trust him, he feels that, and if he is hypothetical to be yours, he gives it back.
It is hard, and it is a luck, and it may well be the hardest feature you do in life and love. But without it, love can not make the world go around my friends. Pinch down folks walls, let go of the sourness and disbelieve, stop judging him based on choice people's accomplishments, and just....trust him. It's good enough. He'll like it. I pledge. And he will give as good as he gets.
Each time you are looking for relationship advice that you can truthfully use to change the way you date, checked yourself for these three dating mistakes Beforehand you connect in your questions. If you are making them it's not too late to courteous them. It never is. Put yourself in checked and watch your dating life turn around. And unexciting if you supply still professional that work, and still need a passing bit of help, we love to grab from you. And don't be so hard on yourself if you do make a let slip. You're human. You're permitted. And if he loves you, he knows that too. Until after that, be loved!
A section of people take aimless to the grasp of asking if agree to neuro linguistic programming (NLP) would clear them at all. Subtle, the fixed to this question is - Yes, but it depends on why human would care to use neuro lingual programming. This fine art (And stage has been significant about it whether it is an artistry or a science), can be feasible to idea government department behavior, sales, healthcare, consulting, and in primary somewhere communications is considered uncomplimentary.
To add footnotes to the value of neuro linguistic programming, think of all professions someplace you think communicating plays a key role. All the inferred rules that utilise to the idea government department world can use concepts of neuro linguistic programming (NLP). Flatten pompous major the aspects of NLP can be utilised by job owners to get holy for executive involved, group building, mental representation manipulation and total quality behavior. In primary, all the cardinal drivers of an government department can find a great connection with neuro lingual programming.
For more readily some time now, therapists take been able to buzz a change in the lifestyles of their clients. To the same extent clients unobtrusively put-upon to get in touch with therapists, stage was more readily a good kindness of info that was on the darker side of information for the therapists. In long forgotten occupy using neuro lingual programming (NLP), they were able to save more readily a a turn of info and the reasoned thinking of the finicky information provided to be info that could be diagnostic very operative in nature.
These are just some domains someplace we feel NLP can be of measureless high opinion to the upliftment of the hot air of the domains themselves. To get back to the point, not that neuro linguistic programming (NLP) intention people exposed changes to the domains, but in implementing NLP you will find that this delegation could make neuro lingual programming very compromising with our day to day life.
On the back of that abuse neuro linguistic programming, a keep of therapists take been able to erudite about(p) provision to their clients that allows them to experience calm change. It correspondingly helps with a multifariousness of tools that helps them to build rapport with their clients. Treat highly, in this vehement world someplace every person seems to be in the be a fan of of funds and reputation, NLPallows them to take a good regard of funds of esteem in beliefs and morality.
Ask any NLP Practitioner and he would tell you that neuro linguistic programming could correspondingly be broken in heaps long forgotten domains and with success at that too. It rubble to be seen on how people could dwelling to the use ofNLP in long forgotten domains too.
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"RAHSIA DISEBALIK BERFIKIR ?"
Salam kehebatan untuk seluruh warga Malaysia. Selawat dan salam kita berikan kepada junjungan besar Nabi Muhammad s.a.w kerana dengannya kita masih lagi mampu berdiri sebagai umatnya yang cemerlang dunia dan akhirat. Saya tertanya-tanya, bagaimana keadaan diri anda hari ini ? Adakah anda sedang menikmati bahan bacaan ini dalam keadaan seronok, gembira, teruja atau bagaimana ? Adakah anda sedang melihat tulisan saya ini dengan wajah berseri-seri atau bagaimana ? Adakah anda mahu menikmat suatu suasana indah dan mengalaminya saat membaca tulisan saya ini ? Saya dapat rasakan bahawa anda diluar sana merasa tidak sabar-sabar menantikan celoteh saya pada kali ini. Bagus......itu tandanya anda adalah apa yang anda fikirkan. Bila anda mula berfikir anda mahu membaca dan menambahkan ilmu baru pada hari ini, sebenarnya itulah diri anda. Anda adalah apa yang anda baca.
Adakah anda sudah bersedia melihat, mendengar dan mengalami saat kehidupan harian anda penuh dengan BERFIKIR ? Katakan "YA" pada persoalan ini dan mari anda alami sendiri bagaimana cara anda berfikir dapat mempengaruhi sistem kehidupan anda. Saya ingin anda duduk dalam keadaan fence selesa. Rasakan seluruh tubuh anda duduk dalam keadaan fence tenang. Mata anda sedang memerhati segala apa yang saya catatkan ini dan bersedialah untuk mengalaminya sekarang. Bagus.....anda semakin fokus terhadap bahan bacaan ini.
Ketika ini adakah anda terfikir berapakah jenis fikiran yang kita miliki di dalam minda kita ? Ambil masa sekejap untuk memikirkan jenis fikiran yang kita miliki sebagai manusia sejak dari kecil hingga sekarang. Sedarkah kita bahawa kita memiliki dua jenis fikiran dan ianya bersatu dalam jasad kita. Fikiran itu adalah fikiran sedar dan bawah sedar. Kedua-dua fikiran ini bekerja dalam waktu yang sama secara cepat, mudah dan pantas. Mungkin saat ini anda tertanya-tanya pada saya, apakah dia fikiran sedar dan bawah sedar ?
Untuk memahami apa itu fikiran sedar dan bawah sedar mari kita lihat, dengar dan lakonkan dialog dibawah :-
FS : "Katakan pada diri kita bahawa kita sihat"
FBS : "Ya, kita sihat"
FS : "Katakan pula saya bodoh"
FBS : "Ya, saya bodoh"
FS : "Saya rasa saya tak mahu makan roti tetapi makan nasi dahulu"
FBS :" Ya, makan nasi dahulu"
FS : " Katakan bahawa saya tak percaya pada kebolehan diri saya"
FBS : "Ya, saya tak percaya pada kebolehan diri saya"
Ketika anda sudah membaca, mendengar dan melakonkan dialog diatas secara mudahnya anda dapat fahami bahawa fikiran sedar mencerap segala maklumat yang diterima masuk ke otak melalui lima pancaindera iaitu penglihatan, pendengaran, penciuman, pengecapan dan sentuhan atau perasaan. Maklumat yang diterima masuk ke dalam otak kita akan ditapis oleh penapis otak dan ianya akan memberikan kesan kepada perubahan keadaan diri atau emosi serta tingkahlaku kita. Sebagai contoh, bila kita menaiki basikal. Kita akan mencerap maklumat bagaimana cara untuk naik basikal dan mengayuh basikal hingga dapat meluncur laju dijalan dan saat itu kita menggunakan fikiran sedar kita. Ketika kita sudah biasa mengayuh basikal, fikiran sedar dan fikiran bawah sedar kita berfungsi secara serentak hingga membolehkan kita mengayuh basikal tanpa ragu-ragu lagi.
Fikiran bawah sedar anda pula akan memprogram apa juga keputusan dan matlamat ke dalam saraf anda melalui proses Neuro Linguistic Secret code (NLP). Insyallah, proses ini anda dapat alami bila berada di dalam kelas perkongsian ilmu NLP secara lebih confusion. Fikiran bawah sedar menjadi android fence setia dan berkesan dalam melakukan apa juga untuk mencapai apa yang anda doakan atau putuskan tadi melalui fikiran sedar. Apa hubungkait antara fikiran sedar dan fikiran bawah sedar dalam kehidupan harian anda ? Ada kaitan ke dengan hidup ini untuk berfikir ? Rilekskan minda anda....bagus....tarik nafas perlahan-lahan....dan hembuskan nafas anda keluar melalui mulut anda.....bagus. Bersediakah anda untuk mendengar cerita saya berkaitan seorang pelajar perempuan sebuah kolej dan bagaimana cara dia berfikir ? Mahu atau mahu ? Sudah semestinya anda mengatakan MAHU pada diri anda untuk tahu berkaitan cerita ini kan ? Bagus......
Apa yang saya coret dan ceritakan ini adalah berdasarkan pada pengalaman peribadi saya dengan pelajar perempuan ini semasa sesi terapi diri di pejabat saya.
" Satu hari pelajar ini datang ke pejabat saya untuk mendapatkan khidmat terapi minda. Bayangkan pada jam 10.00 pagi pelajar ini sudah sampai ke pejabat saya dengan ditemani oleh pelajar praktikal saya, walaubagaimanapun pelajar perempuan ini tak mahu naik ke pejabat saya. Dia kata pada pelajar praktikal saya bahawa DIA "TAKUT" untuk berjumpa dengan saya (En Mus). Saya pun tak tahu apa yang dia takutkan. Pelajar praktikal saya memujuk dia untuk naik ke pejabat saya bagi mendapatkan khidmat terapi minda bersama saya. 15 minit kemudian, barulah pelajar ini dapat melangkah masuk ke pejabat saya. Itu pun terus meluru masuk ke surau pejabat saya. Saya melihat gelagatnya waktu itu, menggeleng-gelengkan kepala tanda tak faham apa yang ditakutkan olehnya. Namun saya memberitahu pelajar praktikal saya agar memberikan air kosong kepada pelajar tersebut untuk diminum. Selepas pelajar itu minum, saya minta pelajar praktikal saya melakukan pernafasan yang betul pada pelajar itu. Hampir 10 minit mereka melakukan pernafasan di dalam surau pejabat saya, kemudian barulah pelajar itu bersedia untuk diterapi. Saya mulakan sesi terapi dengan berbual-bual bersama pelajar itu bagi mempercepatkan rapport antara saya dengan dia. Dalam perbualan itu, saya dapati banyak perkataan -perkataan yang negatif keluar dari mulutnya. Cara dia bercakap dan berfikir kebanyakkan menjurus pada keadaan negatif. Maka saat itu saya mempercepatkan proses pembalikkan serta merangka semula cara dia berfikir bagi menyelesaikan masalah ketumbuhan otak yang dihadapinya. Menurut doktor yang merawatnya, ketumbuhan itu ditahap yang agak kritikal. Apa yang saya mampu lakukan adalah bertanyakan dua soalan utama dari bahagian NLP iaitu :-
1- 'Apa yang anda inginkan dari ketumbuhan otak anda ?'
2- 'Bagaimana anda ingin menghilangkan ketumbuhan otak anda ?'
Anda ingin mengetahui apa yang terjadi selepas itu ? Dia akur untuk menjalankan sesi terapi minda bersama saya. Saya minta untuk pelajar ini mendengar rakaman audio terapi bertajuk "Inkantasi Diri". Audio itu dimainkan selama hampir 18 minit dan selepas mendengar sesi terapi audio itu, dia membuka matanya dalam keadaan segar, bugar dan sihat. Alhamdulillah...dia katakan bahawa mindanya semakin tenang berbanding sebelumnya.....". Ok.......sekarang ini saya berhentikan penceritaan saya diatas dan alihkan perhatian anda dengan bertanya soalan ini, apakah yang terjadi pada pelajar tadi ya ? Apakah perkataan yang dilafazkan seperti "TAKUT", "GEMENTAR", "TAK YAKIN BOLEH SEMBUH" dan perkataan -perkataan lain yang negatif dapat mempengaruhi cara dia berfikir dan bertingkahlaku ? Adakah cara pelajar diatas berfikir dapat mempengaruhi tahap kesihatan dirinya ? Inilah persoalan disebalik RAHSIA DISEBALIK BERFIKIR.
Bila pelajar itu berfikir dan keluarkan perkataan " Saya takut", "Saya tak boleh", "Boleh ke saya cepat sembuh?" dan sebagainya, kata-kata itu meresap masuk ke fikiran bawah sedarnya dan dia lakukannya sebagaimana pelajar itu katakan. Fikiran bawah sedarnya akan menterjemahkan apa yang dia cakap itu melalui kepercayaan diri,sikap, cara berfikir dan akhirnya membawa pada tingkahlakunya. Jika dia bercakap "Saya takut" ini akan membawa pada perilaku dan bayangan dimindanya akan menjadi rosak dan akhirnya memberikan kesan kepada tahap kesihatan dirinya. Mungkin mati cepat atau sebaliknya. Apa pun semuanya dengan izin Allah s.w.t.
Pakar kesihatan ada menyatakan bahawa lebih dari 75% sakit yang dideritai manusia bersifat psikosomatis. Ini membawa maksud fungsi organ tubuh terganggu oleh reaksi sistem saraf terhadap suatu Phenomenon NEGATIF yang ada difikiran bawah sedarnya. Apa yang terjadi dalam bayangan mindanya akan memberikan kesan pada tubuh badannya. Ketika anda sedang membaca tulisan ini, apakah reaksi tubuh badan anda ? Lesu ? Semangat ? Teruja ? Ingin tahu selanjutnya ? Muram ? Sedih ? atau bagaimana ?. Bila anda menyatakan pada diri anda "Saya teruja bila membaca tulisan ini" secara automatiknya seluruh tubuh badan anda beraksi dengan baik dan penglihatan anda semakin fokus terhadap apa yang anda baca. Mungkin juga ketika anda membaca tulisan ini anda seolah-olah berada ditempat pelajar tadi dan mengalami kesakitan yang dihadapi olehnya. Bagaimana anda dapat rasakan sedemikian rupa ? Sudah pasti jawapannya adalah BAYANGAN MINDA ANDA fokus pada masalah pelajar tersebut.
Disinilah terletaknya kekuatan berfikir positif atau boleh saya katakan sebagai HUSNU ZHAN (BERSANGKA BAIK). Apakah anda dan saya pernah memikirkan setiap perkataan yang kita keluarkan dari mulut kita ini adalah RANGSANGAN PADA BAYANGAN MINDA KITA ? Adakah kita pernah berfikir bahawa hidup ini penuh dengan berfikir ? Adakah pernah kita melihat, mendengar dan merasai kehebatan Allah s.w.t melalui kalam sucinya " Afala Tatafakkarun ?"Adakah engkau tidak berfikir ?" Adakah kita pernah berfikir bahawa kata-kata yang kita keluarkan saat berkomunikasi dengan orang sekeliling kita membawa pada perubahan tingkahlakunya samada negatif atau positif ? atau bagaimana kesudahan diri kita bila banyak bercakap hal-hal negatif dari positif ?
Berfikirlah dari akal yang cerdas. Pilih dan putuskannya melalui NIAT dan PERILAKU ANDA. Fahamilah ia melalui mata hati dan terjemahkannya melalui tindakan harian anda. Anda pasti berada dikemuncak kejayaan secara mudah dan senang kerana "Hidup Ini adalah untuk berfikir kerana ALLAH !". Selamat Beramal.
Ikhsan dari penulis :
(Mohd Mustaqiim Asmuji)
(Recognized NLP Master Practitioner NFNLP-USA)
+6019-2044036
A Pew survey on the online social networking habits of adults reveals unsurprising gender differences in personal privacy settings. By a ratio of nearly 5 to 1 (67% to 14%), women make their profiles private and thus only accessible to their friends rather than making them publicly available for viewing by whoever looks them up. While men also tend towards restricting profile access, the ratio, at less than 2 to 1 (48% to 26%), is far less lopsided.
Biology is informative here. Women are the more restrictive gender not only in regards to sex, but when it comes to personal relationships of lesser intensity as well. The survey didn't probe it, but I'd wager girls are also more apt to reject friendship requests from people they barely know or don't know at all than guys are. Being Facebook stalked is understandably a worrisome issue for women, while for men it's flattering and invitational (there are a few easy tricks to get a good sense of who is regularly checking your Facebook profile out).
Parenthetically, 93% of those who use online social networking sites have a Facebook account (as of Spring 2011). MySpace is still used by 23% of them. By contrast, only 11% use Twitter. It's my impression that the latter receives undue media attention given its relatively niche presence. I don't use Twitter so excuse my ignorance about the site, but doesn't Facebook, via status updates, do everything Twitter does plus a whole lot more?
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