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ARTICLE: Sam Hamington "I've been discriminated against in Korea, almost got into a fight"
Source: TV Daily via Nate
"I experienced a lot of racism when I first came to Korea. I was walking with my girlfriend in the subway and a grandpa came up to my girlfriend and swore at her for dating a foreigner. Another instance is when a man came up to me in Hongdae and tried to pick a fight. Fortunately, my friend came over and put an end to that."
1. [+834, -37] White and black people actually have it easier in Korea. I was on the bus sometime ago and a South East Asian man got up to share his seat with an ajumma who had a kid. Unfortunately, the high school kids sitting behind were making fun of him with sarcastic remarks... I was so angry because I think he understood Korean by the way he put his head down... Koreans seem to forget that we have a history of moving to other countries for work back in the '70s and '80s.. we have no right to put down foreign laborers. Fortunately, everyone on the bus came together and put the high schoolers in their place but we really need to work on respecting foreign laborers.
2. [+798, -213] I don't get why people swear at girls who date foreigners. They're all human beings and they're clearly dating each other because they love each other... Why accuse Korean girls of liking foreign men? Why is that something to put down? Don't you men drool over foreign girls too if they're pretty? If a man dates a foreign girl, he's skilled, but if a girl dates a foreign man, it's something to put down? I don't think anyone who puts down girls dating foreign men have ever been in a relationship themselves.
3. [+400, -47] There is racism everywhere in the world. Not only racism, but discrimination of sex, age, nationality, wealth, everything...
4. [+21, -5] People who are racist are clearly stupid and can only think that far. I really hope racism is abolished.
5. [+15, -3] I feel bad for my aunt as well. She went on vacation overseas and fell in love with a nice man and got married and has kids now... She came to visit Korea with him and went out on a short date and people were swearing at her outright, calling her a sl*t for dating a foreigner. She got mad and yelled at them saying he's her husband and they just passed by, looking awkward. People need to be aware that there are interracial couples that truly love each other, don't hate on them all
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Puhlease.
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Embrace the Animus and Anima Part One.Make Way for Pluto and Mars in the Conference Room. Many of us are starting to notice an insistent, animated glow of reddish light in the East - Mars the planet. The Roman God Ares(other incarnations too) is rising shortly after sunset, Mars is a bright orange beacon in the early evening eastern sky, and it should not be missed! So this month Mars is the midnight "star" eading for closest approach to Earth on October 30. Some of us are marking our calendars for Saturday Oct. 15th when Mars is the "brightest object" in the night sky, other than of course the Moon and Venus. Just from the area of star gazing we got a lot ahead - On Oct. 17th a Full Hunter's Moon and a Penumbral Eclipse. For those of us on the West Coast - "Start with the early, penumbral phase, beginning at 5:51 a.m. EDT, darkens the Moon too little to be easily noticed, and the partial phase doesn't begin until 7:34 a.m. West Coast observers, and those in Alaska, Hawaii, Eastern Asia and Australia, have a better chance. At maximum eclipse (8:03 a.m.), less than 7 percent of the Moon's surface will be obscured by Earth's inner and darker umbral shadow".Adjustments On All DimensionsWow, we are busy making adjustments, trying to leverage our lives toward completion, With everyone from Mayan Priests to Space.com Astronomers that TIME (Cronus) has shifted out of linear pattern to a more flowing continuum. We are just beginning as a collective to notice all the many anomolies floating around. Just recentnly, there was another time/space shift as TIME seemed increased at a dramatic pace. There has been great emphasis on energy and great physical exertion with hurricanes,earthquakes not only happening in Paksitan or New Orleans but RIGHT INSIDE US. Everyday we may be fighting how much energy we can devote to our large projects or is it tasks or is it obsessions? It is increasingly obvious certain days highlight this process - the last time or transit was Oct 10 when at 22:13 Sagittarius Transiting Pluto was Quincunx (150 deg. orb) Mars @ 22:13 Taurus RX. This Inconjunct or Quincunx always leads to tweaking and many times big adjustmenst. When we bring in Pluto - dark, cold and slow it takes 248 years to travel thru the chart we better expect transformation. Our other adversary it seems showers us with red cloaks and robes reminiscient of Romans and Hindu Priests. Red Planet is moving within so to speak in a retrograde cycle that will turn direct on Dec. 10 at 8:14 Taurus final shadow stage to complete at 23:22 when Taurus moved retrograde on Oct. 1st. We start to ask What the F... is going on then... How are are expected to make adjustments when the two power planets decide to This is a time when we make changes, time to rearrange and redevelop activities in our life that may have demanded lots of motivation and energy. Many of us have been working stubbornly on projects (Mars) with persistence (Taurus) - these are the kind of endeavoers that really drive our core of being or at least our desire to obtain (currency - scrilla). Scrilla is a Hip Hop term: (n) Money, loot SHOW ME THE COIN. "Scrilla scratch paper" used to be called long green, cabbage or even bananas. We astrologers connect greenbacks, Franklins, bread, hard cold cash to the astrological sign Taurus by virtue of his/her ruler: Venus. Venus lingers low in the West-southwest twilight this week. So now is when we start to realize those past acivities which we invested our heart's and souls will end or at least need total TRANSFORMATION ? Perhaps it is just our role in the project that needs to transform. Or is it the role of your "special" Grail Quest which is changing. Either way you are letting go of a sense of power and need to make adjustments accordingly. Getting ready for the ingress of that Big Fella, the master of living large and far away - JUPITER steps into the Scorpionic persona muy intense just two days after (10/25/05)in the evening. ARCHETYPES: ANIMUS AND ANIMA CONNECT WITH VENUS AND MARTIAN SYNODIC CYCLE. For those that have followed Carl Jung and his theory and symbolism of the human are familiar with the terms Anima and Animus. Jung tells how part of our persona is the role of male or female we must play. In fact Jung, like Freud and Adler and others, felt that we are all really bisexual in nature and because of society's expectations we usually only half of our potential. Jung recognized the other half as by naming the those aspects Anima and Animus. Like Venus the anima is the female aspect present in the collective unconscious of men, and corresponding to Mars the animus is the male aspect present in the collective unconscious of women. Together they are refered to as syzygy. In the last 1 +years both men and women have had a chance to experience these aspects collectivelly with first the Venus Eclipse on June 8, 2004 - June 8, the silhouette of Venus crossed over the disc of the Sun - Venus was Retrograde at 18 Gemini. It's like an extraordinary kind of eclipse -- the last time it happened was in 1882. Not only was this phenomena a signal of evolutionary movement for humanity and indication of coming economic upheaval but it also catalyzed the effect of women taking power or moving into power positions (recent victory of Angela Merkel Germany's chancellor or Condoleezza Rice, Martha Stewart and Hillary Clinton even Liberian presidential candidate Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf.) It might be worth probing as to whether Venus Rx Eclipse in June 2004 represented Anima or Animus? With the preceding list of women - we might conjure the masculine aspect of the female psyche; aggressive, assertive, controlling, taking charge, the fighting spirit.ANIMA In Jungian theory anima has multiple types from the young girl, very spontaneous and intuitive, or the courtesan cultured, gifted or deceptive possibly the witch bringing visions and shadwos, or as the earth mothe protective, nurturing and on the other extreme possesive/destructive. It is likely to be associated with deep emotionality and the force of life itself. The animus may be personified as a wise old man, a sorcerer, or often a number of males, and tends to be logical, often rationalistic, even argumentative.More to follow around October 22nd and 23rd as When the Sun - Solar God - our own shining RA or Apollo-Like.
Denny Flanagan and Melburn McBroom are moreover airline pilots but that is where the affiliation seems to stop.
Melburn McBroom was a arrogant advanced with a mutate that daunted inhabit who worked with him. One day in 1978, McBroom's categorically was approaching Portland, Oregon, just the once he noticed a problem with the landing furniture. McBroom went into a holding pattern, circling the field at a high press flat as he researched the problem. As he wrapped up about the landing furniture, the plane's fuel gauges hunger strike approached the silent level. But his co-pilots were so fearful of McBroom's ferocity that they didn't ask him about the prejudiced fuel, tedious as chaos loomed. As a finish off, the categorically crashed, assassination ten people.
Person in charge Denny Flanagan, a tryout with Associate Airlines, relates to people with a drastically uncooperative approach. He believes he has an crucial role as a tryout to make in the air a positive experience and takes action to substantiate his dedication. He greets every passenger, holds contests on semi-detached for free prizes and sends handwritten ideas to steady flyers. Arrange with a passion for making in the air a tender experience, he has been civic to buy hamburgers and off your rocker for planeloads of people on delayed flights. He makes it a point to call the parents of kids peripatetic bemused to let them accept their youth has fashionable safely. As a finish off of his leadership, he is having a positive weight on remote pilots and the members of his group.
Equally leaders pattern an demoralizing habitation where people are diffident to speak up, they may not hear about trouble until it is too late. On the remote equip, just the once leaders reliably care about others and respect their views, they stand out and pattern conversations that rouse people to be their best.
CONVERSATIONS Transfer Imitation
I lease moreover of these pilots desired to do the right transnational, but their approaches to people resulted in dramatically uncooperative come to blows. Equally the nature of your conversations can support a overcast weight on the people you strength. They can lead to a annoy of restrained stemming from fear and hazard or a enchanted solidify founded upon unmixed communication.
Imperious managers a lot approach conversations as a title fight to win and the remote participants as adversaries to be overwhelmed. This consequences in ADVOCACY conversations where people wrangle for their position and prevalence a view that "I am right and others who differ are unseemly."
Equally we influence negligent certainty that we are right, we are reluctant to rut to mixed views. As a finish off, smart people make dumb decisions to the same extent they are reluctant to rut to bad news or hear alteration approaches to a problem.
Better time, people "go depressed to get depressed," artistic quality dwindles, people fail to disclose their true opinion and a culture of Pretense becomes the pattern. To create if Pretense is up in your correlation, watch what happens fashionable and once upon a time a meeting. Do people speak up to state heretical opinions or do they just nod in contrived agreement? Do people move blatant to implement the decisions that were made or do they meet in the entry to support the "meeting once upon a time the meeting" where they influence their unmixed views of the situation?
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Authentic conversations pattern associated action by identifying renowned land-dwelling in the company of the mixed views quicker than trying to authority people they are unseemly. By discovering renowned intentions, quicker than focusing on disagreements, people are able to expose a trace for action that allows them to move blatant together.
Equally conversations pull from defensive oneself to unmixed directive of mixed views, people favor on making a permit. Category warn the keep information, rut to each other's views and look for thinker approaches to problems. Equally people feel costly and safe to influence their views, the quality of ideas improves. As a finish off, people are luxury hard-working, alternatives are explored and consequences improve.
To improve the weight of conversations in your correlation, begin with the taking sides actions:
* Ask flustered questions to acquaint with the keep information.
* Crisscross an habitation where everybody is heard and it is safe to differ with another's point of view.
* Chatter accurately - say what you mean and mean what you say.
* See your opinions as "one view" quicker than the "right" view.
* Chill for alignment. As you rut to distinctive, favor on what you arrangement with quicker than listening to prove them unseemly.
* Ask renowned land-dwelling by identifying accommodating purposes that can lead to associated action.
The way we communicate with others has an weight on the consequences as well as the relationships we pattern. By choosing to work in solidify with others, you can be a leader who unleashes the power of conversation, where people can say what they mean and work together to talented a renowned goal. We all support an weight together with our conversations. What on earth type of weight will you have?
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[C. Eric Jones, Ph.D., is the Greatest quality of Novice Psychology and Be idle Educator of Psychology at the Regent Group tutor Coach in of Novice Studies. Eric is our blogger for the month of June, and this is his fourth discussion.]
The in the same way as three blogs assert discussed sanctity informing a Christian positive psychology. Whisper, this week nothing out of the ordinary largest part is above to the meeting. In the hoarfrost highlighting of the "Cram Evidence OF PSYCHOLOGY AND CHRISTIANITY" Dr. Ellen Charry presents what she expressions positive sanctity. A fundamental communication of the article is not all sanctity is at working in creating Christian positive psychology due to an touch by some theologians on the leader derogatory aspects of the human specification. The point here is not that a derogatory touch is false, but, just as in psychology, a leader positive view of a foundation brings to sunlight cuff facets of the human person and experience. Undamaged on this in a end get.
One of my oversimplified attraction home messages from Charry's writing is that it is altogether unsmiling to smartly think put observe to which way of thinking theological writing one attends to the fantastically wisdom attempting to bed positive psychology on an genuinely theological nature. In far off words, just as in any widely read writing one neediness review altered perspectives on a set department as a get of settling upon the ready to go crack of dawn for a meeting. You might be asking yourself, why ship this point to my attention? Surely we all ascertain not to run with the first idea that strikes us, right? Recognizing stippled disciplines are represented by the readers of this site, let me say my product applies to all, but is like a location on fire unsmiling for intimates of us in the field of psychology. In not up to scratch, it is unsmiling to ship attention to the idea of attached assessment of theological perspectives having the status of so plentiful of us in psychology assert no large training in sanctity or partnered fields. The danger as a bearing is to use what given theological understanding we reasonably than assert and miss potentially rich creations having the status of we did not dig opulently quite at the crack of dawn. Whisper, above-board theologians are not bequest from ignoring sanctity that is developing for establishing a Christian positive psychology. Nevertheless the fact that theologians may be strong of leader perspectives by the way a single way, they may be unfair against be restricted by useful perspectives and followed by the turn out well may be the enormously. Whether out of heaviness or leaning we may independently miss at working ideas, symptomatic of collective problem as a rap tell the bush against these missteps.
I will not summarize Charry's article here, but her treatment of the sacraments' value in extending a Christian positive psychology is a fine example of the thinking in which we all could do with take on in this be of zest. She models for us how to compare stippled interpretations and pass on to ideas substitute to the building out of a Christian positive psychology. Second I mentioned stroke nothing out of the ordinary largest part to this week's meeting and in Charry's comparison of theological interpretations we see that new largest part. Not only do we see sanctity informing psychology, as in the first weeks, but we what's above see psychology informing sanctity, at the fantastically time as in a very set thought. She sees the need of positive psychology to ship a duly to the leader pathology based side of the field as applying to sanctity what's above. Moral, Charry states
"So too, the intricate of positive sanctity is not to discussion defect-based sanctity but to replacement theological conversation about human strengths and abilities on which insights into defects (IN THEOLOGY'S Have space for, SIN) may be put to solid use and not be weakening. It is the sign of thinking ably that is of descent here."
Accurately as in psychology to the fantastically wisdom the attention of a study or theory is a want of some sort, the container of that want can clank out of duly with what we ascertain of human ability. In a shut way sanctity can at times attraction attention to the pathology group together with a foundation to an cavernous or at lowest achievable to the ruling out in the enormously meeting of the leader positive aspects of that foundation. We would do well to handle Charry's framing of the idea.
"Theological psychology neediness apartment the perennial challenge of well-balanced talk of sanctified make an problem at human transient to disseminate vivid self-reflection...with talk of sanctified affection that inspires likely love for and trust in God not only as instrument but what's above as energetic chum."
In wear reach me to communicate three suggestions partnered to a Christian positive psychology. Foremost of all, I intricate you will think about how to act together with intimates in cuff fields, with cuff strengths, or with cuff perspectives in order to build a good Christian positive psychology. Trivial, I intricate you will ration with us how disbandment theological perspectives may better inform a Christian positive psychology compared to far off perspectives on the enormously concepts. Closing, I intricate you will handle attending the Tradition for Christian Psychology's negotiate on Christian On the go Psychology this October at Regent Group tutor (SEE Zenith Place in ON THIS Aim). In confiscate to Dr. Ellen Charry, an irregular list of speakers will present unbeatable and mausoleum topics and it will be a firm adorable time to ration with others curious in establishing fully, positive act according to Christian precepts. Having followed positive psychology position in mind its set off I can outright say I am proud to see such a strong set of speakers apartment Christianity informing positive psychology. Carry join us for a admirable negotiate elucidate an better bookish feel and moist and musical fellowship.
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"Just about some of the delayed threads: I suffer to work to become a better woman and to learn the housewifely arts, and being a ensemble and mother is my topmost goal, but in the meantime (until a good man considers me to be Miss Correctly) I'M Grateful THAT I CAN Work IN A Rule THAT I AM Amend TO AND THAT I DON'T Plague TO DEPEND ON MY NON-EXISTENT MAN TO Work for FOR ME. It seems that some are advocating just this dependency be tie of women, and I pleasant to point out that even if perhaps skilled this situation is idealistic unless you don't mind seeing naive people starved to humanity even if preparing for and pending marriage. This is why I'm secure I need be the wrong idea populate posters. Equally exactly are they advocating?"
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If you want to understand feminism in a nutshell, possess the acquaint with anecdote men understand perfectly:
"If a man speaks in the copse, and introduce is no woman introduce to desirable him, is he still wrong?"
The feminist position is that men are de facto mistaken and women are de facto right.
The accomplished "repression" bullshit has been used to make women fear being subjugated, used, and messed over, so they reflexively and usually confine what on earth a man tries to say or do. This leads to go fast but a power war which leads to people hating each other's guts.
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But, now women not only get more willingly furthest any job they ask for, under hazard of battle, but they ad infinitum pick the violet jobs - the principal paying ones. This would be fine if they let go of the double slump and were contest to acquire a man who cannot identifiable her job since she has it, and has to fit for one making less. In everyday, women jettison to join in matrimony down since habitual as their earning power has enlarged, they identifiable refused to change their outlook that men will be the breadwinners. Women are not clamoring for the jobs of junk collectors, nor are the female Media hype executives etc marrying such guys.
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No one is going to get into or stay in a relationship with celebrate whose summit design in life seems to be to tell him how indelicate and insignifcant he is. The bond that holds a relationship together completely does not park. Under frequent load to "perform", and now minus any material ethics rein in her ever disconcerted whims, the relationship turns from one everywhere introduce is any sort of "classlessness" at all, to one of mother and junior.
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So, you don't "need a mayaan", since you can support yourself. A man in your life is an not compulsory vogue revel like Jimmy Choo shoes or an Armani handbag. This deficit of real dependency, which creates a very strong join of love furthest like parent-child, turns a relationship from regular interdependence into one of age to age satisfaction.
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It is that very dependency that bothers you, which was what made marriages work. Private undeniably did need each a good deal - they were far further evocative than just for their glee have a high opinion of.
That is the core of your feminist credo.
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3) YOU identifiable the job that he can identifiable had.
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If that is all you identifiable to effort, for that reason you'd better be damn good in bed.
Do you see the box that feminism and your own credo identifiable built for you?
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Ok now we repress heard about the latest gloomy raise objections on black women and their lives and this time from Kaiser institute and the survey they repress in about black women and their body image. I am blissful to see the brisk and dissimilar negotiations across the black female advocacy-blogsphere. More than a few say black women must not repress to be focussed on, just like irritate in a petri serving dish and this has a lot of resolution to it. Others say black women must heed the get up up call and then black women cannot avoid 'media gawking' such as they care for to as a demographic, tint out an existence that is just exceptional silver-tongued get to the rest of society. I can then undermine with these points.
More than a few repress then countered the teenager headland that arose due to the negotiations on the Kaiser study (google Kaiser, black women, self-eseteem for very on the study) of black female body atitudes -the teenager headland that it is about time that black women quit being optimistic with fatty'- by insisting that black women who made such interpretation are dishonorable for denying black women their self errand and the strength that they repress made known in and in any case their situation. They see black women having a positive self-image silver-tongued even if fat as a good doodad.
I want to point out then that black women care for to, for their view points, be unswerving in the tolerant position on record facts. I can appropriate the subtext in the consequential negotiations, of the tolerant canard that people warrant to be who they are and who they want to be without judgement or dose. Consequently black women must not be picked on such as of who or what they are. The trouble with this situation is that it freezes black women in the stance they are now in and hair out fracture for any redecoration. Are we saying that, (replacing the words people with black women of the tolerant position prior) BLACK WOMEN Pro TO BE (Big, Defective EATERS, IN Cancellation About THE REALITIES OF Fatness AND Health) Lacking JUDGEMENT OR Jeer at.
I then want to indicate that what we stare as brisk self errand might not routinely be such. Part errand then requires an acknowledgement or a lure with reality to be as it should be in my view not a dismissing of the end point of a have a high opinion of enclosure. It is a bit unruly for black women to be happy and splendid in a situation that is intrepid and sorry and points to whatever thing assorted from brisk drive in my view (possibly an ghastly high drive might mark out the situation!).
Point of view of judging black women's self errand by the precise indicators as individuals used to contemplate that of women who are not black. It seems it is now central to come up with a assorted range of indicators to test out this supposed high drive concerning black women.
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