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5 Probable Reasons Why Youre Single

5 Probable Reasons Why Youre Single
"ARE YOU SINGLE AND SICK AND TIRED OF IT?" Being happily single is not something for everyone; it takes a lot of confidence and self-love to be able to go through life without a significant other. Going through just one holiday as a single person may even be an ordeal to some! And while you men don't really bother to show it or talk about it ("please, what guy shows up on poker nights lamenting to his buddies moping about loneliness and being single over beer"), we know better. You think about it, the thought fills your mind when you're alone on a Friday night gorging on Doritos and Pepsi on the couch you couldn't share with anyone.

For most people, being in a committed relationship meant companionship, belonging, and never having to fear being alone; that being in a relationship and sharing love is a fulfillment in itself. So it's not surprising some people are just fed up of being a lonely soul in a society that loves pairs. Haven't you read the post on how to seduce a woman? Read it here now.

REASONS WHY YOU'RE SINGLE


Now, if you're fed up and tired of being single, and of having to go through the usual cycle of dating and getting disappointed, why don't we try to figure out why it never works? Here are 5 probably reasons why you are single:

* YOU ARE LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACES. I won't call you out for having standards; having them is good. And that's so much better than men who would go after anything that calls themselves women and look like women. But the reason, maybe, why you're single is that no one in the crowd you hang out with possesses the qualities that you're looking for. Maybe the yuppie crowd is too old for you and you're looking for a young, animated lady. Or maybe the serious business people in your clique are not providing you with the hippie chicks that you've always fancied to meet. Change your scenery and go after the kind of women that make you happy.
* YOU ARE TOO SHY. There's a single lady, there's a single you, and there's space between you two. And she's only waiting for you to make a move. If you're shy, you probably just let this opportunity pass and let your shyness take you over. And if that's the story of your life, then stop wondering why you're single. PS: if you're too bashful to actually go out, try online dating! Create an awesome profile and wow them fellow shy ones!
* YOU SPEND TOO MUCH TIME WITH YOURSELF AND BY YOURSELF. Me-time is healthy. But too much of it, as with anything, may be bad for your social life (which, I reckon, you don't have any more) and your dating life. The girls won't know where you are and they are unlikely to show up at your doorstep; the girls won't be at your house or whichever cave you chose to hide in. And even if they did, if you keep to yourself 90-100% of the time, you won't stand a chance to meet them at all. You have to go out sometimes, you know. That is, if you want to find your mate.
* YOU DON'T LOOK THE PART. Girls, while they don't always have tastes, still have standards on what's good to date and what's not. If you are (A)"stinky", (B)"dirty", (C)" unkempt most days", chances are, they've mistaken you for a hobo than an actual date-able man. You don't have to go all out looking like a million bucks; just at least look clean and decent, and someone who wouldn't elicit weird and nasty looks when out in public.
* YOU ARE IN THE FRIENDZONE. Ahh but of course, the tale of many a gallant male in history and today. I'm telling you, get out of there. That's the only way to know if she cares enough to stop you from leaving, or if she was a waste of your love energy the whole time. Get out and get out of there FAST!

Try the ultimate guide to love from SonicSeduction.net but man, you may be single because you are loving it. Either way, if you find yourself in any of these situations, try the tips on how to overcome it and be successfully out of the single zone!

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