Beyonce Father Remarries How Does It Feel

Reading about Beyonce's Father (Knowles) remarriage and knowing that both she and Solange were already adults when their parents divorced in 2011, I feel she will give her support and would say "there is no hard feeling," It's not easy at all. "Oh well, she is an adult, happily married with her own child so how her Mum and Dad chose to live may not really be her headache." Ok, so Beyonce has a step mother. Then, I start to look at it in a different way;

When relationships break up, it is never easy when one person moves

on. It takes years for some, especially ladies if they were truly in Love with their exes. It is worse for people who start talking or planning a wedding before the breakup. IMO, I think men move on easily, faster than women. Sometimes, people who rush into another relationship do not last because they weren't properly healed before getting involved.

Moving on is something that is mostly easier said than done. If it is that difficult for a broken relationship, It should be more difficult for divorcees. After reading about Mr Knowles remarriage. I got me thinking about the other person and even the children involved in a broken marriage, especially if they are not yet adults. If they are still dependent on both parents.

Although Beyonce says there are no hard feelings. I still feel like it won't be very easy for her who grew up with Mum and Dad living under one roof and now sees Dad with another family.

Please dear parents, no one can blame those who chose to move on with their lives, after all, it is your life. Most times, we hear that the best option is a separation and divorce, that it may be the best for the kids. Me, I don't know sha o.

I just want to encourage those of us who may just be thinking of throwing in the towel to please think about the kids. They get so affected. We brought them into this world and are responsible for their happiness. Whatever decision you chose to take in that marriage, think about its effect on other people involved.

Let us always try our best not to be too selfish. If we need to sacrifice something to give the children a happy foundation, then let's try. Everything is possible if we put our minds to it. Even that relationship/marriage you think is dead can be revived if you truly want.

Commitment, selflessness and Faith can make the impossible become possible. If you have already made up your mind to end that marriage. Please don't. There is no threat to your life. Every other thing that is making you despair can be remedied. If you decide to make it work, give it your best cos of the kids, you will not regret. I know that sometimes, there is nothing anyone can do, at other times, if you look deep into your marriage, if you begin to think about others like the kids, you find a reason to hold on, not only holding on but reviving it.

Let us please learn and keep trying our possible best to put others first and watch how God won't disappoint us.

Still thinking about kids who experience this, and then watch one parent become a member of another family, how does it feel?

"Btw, I made ekpang/ikokore with ordinary yam. The yam we all use for pounded yam, NOT water yam. This dish turned out perfecto. There was no difference. How I did it? I will spill when I post, hopefully today."

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