суббота, 8 марта 2014 г.
Tried And True Advice To Improve Your Leadership Skills
четверг, 6 марта 2014 г.
Balancing Mars And Venus In Each Of Us
=-Excerpt From The Relationship Handbook: How to Understand
and Improve Every Relationship in Your Life by Kevin B. Burk
=-When we think of ourselves first and foremost as human,
weve taken the first step towards regaining our balance.
Gender does not define who we are. Gender is nothing more
than a biological point of view. Once we take 2,500 years of
ego- and fear-based conditioning out of the picture, the
main difference between men and women is whether we have
indoor or outdoor plumbing. We are not our bodies. Our
bodies are nothing more than a suit of clothes worn by our
spirit. The main differences are that our spirits wear our
bodies for longer than our bodies wear our clothes, and our
bodies are harder to dry clean. Men and women do have
different points of view, but what matters is that we are
all human. And every human has equal amounts of masculine
and feminine energy.It would be easier to embrace this truth if we had a better
understanding of exactly what "masculine" and "feminine"
really mean. Our current definitions are inexorably linked
to gender, sexuality, biology, and the ego-based lie of male
superiority. We have lost touch with many of the qualities
that were once associated with the feminine. In order to
rediscover these qualities, we have to go back more than
2,500 years and explore the culture of Ancient Greece.The Ancient Greeks were the last civilization to include
reasonably healthy feminine archetypes. Of the twelve Gods
in Olympus, five of them were women. Until very recently,
though, we only embraced three of the feminine archetypes.
Women could be sex objects, in which case they connected
with the archetype of Aphrodite (or Venus, in the Roman
pantheon), the Goddess of Love, Desire and Beauty. Women
could be wives, in which case they connected with the
archetype of Hera, the wife of Zeus and the Goddess of
Marriage--who, despite her tremendous strength and cunning,
was repeatedly forced to be subservient to her philandering
husband. And women could be mothers, in which case they
connected with the archetype of Hestia, the Goddess of the
Hearth and protector of the home. These three archetypes
embodied the sum total of the feminine for more than 2,000
years. The male ego successfully suppressed the powerful
female archetypes of Athena and Artemis, who collectively
embody feminine strength, skill and mastery.Athena was the Goddess of Wisdom, Reason and Purity.
Severing our connection to her archetype was no small feat,
as Athena was one of the most revered and respected of all
of the Olympians. In fact, the city of Athens is named after
her. Athena was fair, just, and an incredibly powerful
warrior. She was the embodiment of feminine strength. While
Ares, the God of War (and the Greek counterpart to Mars, the
Roman God of War) was wantonly destructive, childish,
violent, aggressive, and ultimately a coward, Athena was
proud, strong, and courageous. More importantly, Athena
would only fight in order to defend the city--she would never
initiate any conflicts, and she always preferred diplomacy
to warfare.Athena is the archetype of the female warrior. Female
warriors are in no way inferior to male warriors: Time and
again, women have proved that they are in every way equal to
men on the battlefield. The difference is that female
warriors do not fight in the same way that male warriors do,
nor do they fight for the same reasons. Male warriors fight
to attack, while female warriors fight to defend. The female
warrior archetype has returned, however. We see it when
Sarah Michelle Gellar beats up vampires and saves the world
(while still maintaining every ounce of her femininity) in
Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and when Lucy Lawless battles
warlords, gods and monsters alike in Xena, Warrior Princess.
More recently, we see Guinevere portrayed as a warrior in
Walt Disney and Jerry Bruckheimers 2004 film retelling of
King Arthur.Artemis, the Goddess of the Hunt, is the archetype of the
female athlete. In every way, she was the equal of her
brother, Apollo. Artemis has returned as a useful archetype
for women today, thanks to the popularity of womens
athletics. Women now have role models and opportunities to
explore their physical strength, and test and improve their
skills through competitive sports.We have always measured "masculinity" based on strength,
power, and skill, but these qualities are as present in
women as they are in men. Women were supposed to be delicate
flowers who needed men to protect them. The truth, however,
is that while men may have the edge over women in terms of
brute strength, that women often surpass men in skill and
dexterity. Once we take biology and reproduction out of the
equation, men and women are very evenly matched. So what
then, are the truly "masculine" and "feminine" qualities?
The masculine principle is focused, expressive, and direct.
The feminine principle is diffuse, intuitive, and receptive.
The feminine principle provides the container to support the
masculine energy. Masculine energy expands, and feminine
energy contracts. Any action can be "masculine" or
"feminine" in nature, depending on how it is applied.
Warrior energy on its own is neither masculine nor feminine.
It becomes masculine when we attack in order to expand our
borders; it becomes feminine when we fight to defend and
protect our tribe from invasion.Its true that men tend to be more in touch with the more
"masculine" or yang aspects, while women tend to be more in
touch with the more "feminine" or yin aspects. But not being
aware of or familiar with our complimentary nature doesnt
mean that we cant learn about it and express it. This, in
fact, is the reason that men and women form relationships
with each other. Our partners are our mirrors, and when men
and women relate to each other--whether that relationship is
sexual or not--what we see reflected is our complimentary
nature. We see the parts of ourselves that we havent
integrated or owned yet. And through our relationships with
the opposite gender, we learn how to connect with and own
these parts of ourselves, and experience true balance. We
need to learn to acknowledge, accept and embrace these two
complimentary natures. We each have both Mars and Venus
within us, and we need to learn how to appreciate and
express them both.
=-Kevin B. Burk is the author of The Relationship Handbook:
How to Understand and Improve Every Relationship in Your
Life. Visit http://www.everyrelationship.com for a FREE
report on creating AMAZING Relationships.
=-
Keyword : realationship, relationships, Men, Women, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, dating, sexuality
суббота, 1 марта 2014 г.
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четверг, 27 февраля 2014 г.
Astrofashion Zodiac Wardrobe Tips
It doesn't matter how 'in fashion' the garment is. It doesn't matter how many people tell us "Wow, that really suits you!" If we're not feeling it, we're not feeling it. And it's hard to feel comfortable when you like you're wearing a disguise designed to meet the approval of others.
And when we're not comfortable, we give off little subliminal waves that make others feel uncomfortable, too. Not ideal when we're trying to impress a date. Especially in the midst of the emotional and spiritual minefield that is the dreaded first date.
You don't need me to tell you that the 'date environment' can be uncomfortable enough without us transmitting additional psychic signals of uneasiness!
But there is a solution, and it isn't to be found in the pages of an expensive, glossy fashion magazine.
From Aries to Pisces, your star sign says a lot about your wardrobe personality. Do you prefer trendy, funky, eclectic, casual, boho, or classic styles? Read about your zodiac sign's sartorial preferences and discover surefire tips to dressing like the zodiac fashionista you are.
And when you dress like... well, you, you'll feel comfortable and you'll make your date feel comfortable, too. Win-win!
FASHION AND THE ARIES WOMAN
Aries, you are the trendsetter. You love whatever's new, rejecting last year's trends and styles. You love athletic fashion and anything sporty or speedy. Your closet is probably filled with casual clothes, but you know how to look glam if the event calls for it. Aries' power color is red, and this sign rules the face and head, so stock up on hats.
FASHION AND THE TAURUS WOMAN
Taurus loves tactile fabrics, and you are one of the best dressers in the zodiac. You seek textures, layers, and fabrics that show off your luscious curves. You also have a practical streak, so there are probably hiking boots or overalls in your wardrobe. Rich earth tones in green, blue, and grown suit your grounded nature.
FASHION AND THE GEMINI WOMAN
The sign of the Twins, you have multiple wardrobe personalities and like trying different looks depending on who you want to be for the day. Your clothing style is eclectic and funky, so shop for clothes in vintage stores. Gemini rules the hands, so pick up some chunky bracelets and rings. You also need lots of pockets for your electronic gadgets and gizmos.
FASHION AND THE CANCER WOMAN
Cozy and homey are Cancer the Crab's fashion words. Once you've left the office, it's time for your favorite lavender pajamas and snuggly sweaters. You also love feminine looks and enjoy dressing in flowy fabrics and pastel colors. Show off your pretty d'ecolletage with romantic blouses. Cancer's power colors are blue, silver, and white.
FASHION AND THE LEO WOMAN
Leo the bombshell is a showstopper in slinky dresses, marabou boas, and old-Hollywood glam style. You love drama and don't believe in being over-dressed. You turn heads wherever you go, so shine amongst the masses in gold jewelry and fabulous shoes. Wear yellow to mirror your sunny personality.
FASHION AND THE VIRGO WOMAN
The Virgo fashionista is a tasteful dresser, with a neat and tailored classic style. Dress it up with elegant silver jewelry, and reach for spring green when you need a pick-me-up. Your closet is mostly traditional office clothes, but you often have one fabulous signature piece to set you apart.
FASHION AND THE LIBRA WOMAN
Lovely Libra adores fashion and is one of the best dressers in the zodiac. Your balanced look is the result of an exquisite eye for pattern and proportion. You have a chic style with classic pieces paired with interesting details. Try adding an Asian element like a Japanese fabric purse or obi belt.
FASHION AND THE SCORPIO WOMAN
Dark mysterious fashion reminiscent of film noir suits your personality. Scorpio signature pieces are black skinny pants and sunglasses. When you want more impact, slink into a burgundy dress or sexy skirt that hugs your curves. Add a snakeskin clutch purse for a dash of danger.
FASHION AND THE SAGITTARIUS WOMAN
Clothes that are easy to pack in a suitcase suit the Sagittarius dresser. You love to travel and have a casual jet-setting style. Who needs fancy accessories when you're on safari in Africa? You love funky global pieces and beach casual looks like maxi dresses or lounge pants. Shop for easy-care travel clothes to mix and match for a unique look that's totally you.
FASHION AND THE CAPRICORN WOMAN
The Capricorn wardrobe is historically inspired, conservative, and extremely classy. You love a high-class luxe look. However, you're not in the mood to drop a fortune, so you're the lucky girl who finds designer bargains. Spend the money on quality pieces - you know you'll wear them for years.
FASHION AND THE AQUARIUS WOMAN
Well, Aquarius, your fashion is as individual as you are. You simply don't care what anyone thinks, so you wear what you want. You wear casual to formal events and formal to casual events. Vintage stores could offer eclectic pieces, and you also might consider wearing unique fabrics like bamboo or cruelty-free faux fur.
FASHION AND THE PISCES WOMAN
Your style is artistic and flowy. Pisces looks dreamy and natural in bohemian pieces like peasant tops and tiered skirts. Power colors are those of the sea - blue, green, and lavender. Pisces have a weakness for shoes and are also highly creative, so you may want to fashion your own unique look.
Expressing your personality with horoscope style tips is just one of the many ways to celebrate your unique self and put you at ease when you're on a date. Take your fashion advice from the stars and dress like your zodiac sign!
Besides, it's a fantastic excuse to go shopping with your girlfriends!
вторник, 25 февраля 2014 г.
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