Balancing Mars And Venus In Each Of Us

Author : Kevin Burk

=-Excerpt From The Relationship Handbook: How to Understand

and Improve Every Relationship in Your Life by Kevin B. Burk

=-When we think of ourselves first and foremost as human,

weve taken the first step towards regaining our balance.

Gender does not define who we are. Gender is nothing more

than a biological point of view. Once we take 2,500 years of

ego- and fear-based conditioning out of the picture, the

main difference between men and women is whether we have

indoor or outdoor plumbing. We are not our bodies. Our

bodies are nothing more than a suit of clothes worn by our

spirit. The main differences are that our spirits wear our

bodies for longer than our bodies wear our clothes, and our

bodies are harder to dry clean. Men and women do have

different points of view, but what matters is that we are

all human. And every human has equal amounts of masculine

and feminine energy.It would be easier to embrace this truth if we had a better

understanding of exactly what "masculine" and "feminine"

really mean. Our current definitions are inexorably linked

to gender, sexuality, biology, and the ego-based lie of male

superiority. We have lost touch with many of the qualities

that were once associated with the feminine. In order to

rediscover these qualities, we have to go back more than

2,500 years and explore the culture of Ancient Greece.The Ancient Greeks were the last civilization to include

reasonably healthy feminine archetypes. Of the twelve Gods

in Olympus, five of them were women. Until very recently,

though, we only embraced three of the feminine archetypes.

Women could be sex objects, in which case they connected

with the archetype of Aphrodite (or Venus, in the Roman

pantheon), the Goddess of Love, Desire and Beauty. Women

could be wives, in which case they connected with the

archetype of Hera, the wife of Zeus and the Goddess of

Marriage--who, despite her tremendous strength and cunning,

was repeatedly forced to be subservient to her philandering

husband. And women could be mothers, in which case they

connected with the archetype of Hestia, the Goddess of the

Hearth and protector of the home. These three archetypes

embodied the sum total of the feminine for more than 2,000

years. The male ego successfully suppressed the powerful

female archetypes of Athena and Artemis, who collectively

embody feminine strength, skill and mastery.Athena was the Goddess of Wisdom, Reason and Purity.

Severing our connection to her archetype was no small feat,

as Athena was one of the most revered and respected of all

of the Olympians. In fact, the city of Athens is named after

her. Athena was fair, just, and an incredibly powerful

warrior. She was the embodiment of feminine strength. While

Ares, the God of War (and the Greek counterpart to Mars, the

Roman God of War) was wantonly destructive, childish,

violent, aggressive, and ultimately a coward, Athena was

proud, strong, and courageous. More importantly, Athena

would only fight in order to defend the city--she would never

initiate any conflicts, and she always preferred diplomacy

to warfare.Athena is the archetype of the female warrior. Female

warriors are in no way inferior to male warriors: Time and

again, women have proved that they are in every way equal to

men on the battlefield. The difference is that female

warriors do not fight in the same way that male warriors do,

nor do they fight for the same reasons. Male warriors fight

to attack, while female warriors fight to defend. The female

warrior archetype has returned, however. We see it when

Sarah Michelle Gellar beats up vampires and saves the world

(while still maintaining every ounce of her femininity) in

Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and when Lucy Lawless battles

warlords, gods and monsters alike in Xena, Warrior Princess.

More recently, we see Guinevere portrayed as a warrior in

Walt Disney and Jerry Bruckheimers 2004 film retelling of

King Arthur.Artemis, the Goddess of the Hunt, is the archetype of the

female athlete. In every way, she was the equal of her

brother, Apollo. Artemis has returned as a useful archetype

for women today, thanks to the popularity of womens

athletics. Women now have role models and opportunities to

explore their physical strength, and test and improve their

skills through competitive sports.We have always measured "masculinity" based on strength,

power, and skill, but these qualities are as present in

women as they are in men. Women were supposed to be delicate

flowers who needed men to protect them. The truth, however,

is that while men may have the edge over women in terms of

brute strength, that women often surpass men in skill and

dexterity. Once we take biology and reproduction out of the

equation, men and women are very evenly matched. So what

then, are the truly "masculine" and "feminine" qualities?

The masculine principle is focused, expressive, and direct.

The feminine principle is diffuse, intuitive, and receptive.

The feminine principle provides the container to support the

masculine energy. Masculine energy expands, and feminine

energy contracts. Any action can be "masculine" or

"feminine" in nature, depending on how it is applied.

Warrior energy on its own is neither masculine nor feminine.

It becomes masculine when we attack in order to expand our

borders; it becomes feminine when we fight to defend and

protect our tribe from invasion.Its true that men tend to be more in touch with the more

"masculine" or yang aspects, while women tend to be more in

touch with the more "feminine" or yin aspects. But not being

aware of or familiar with our complimentary nature doesnt

mean that we cant learn about it and express it. This, in

fact, is the reason that men and women form relationships

with each other. Our partners are our mirrors, and when men

and women relate to each other--whether that relationship is

sexual or not--what we see reflected is our complimentary

nature. We see the parts of ourselves that we havent

integrated or owned yet. And through our relationships with

the opposite gender, we learn how to connect with and own

these parts of ourselves, and experience true balance. We

need to learn to acknowledge, accept and embrace these two

complimentary natures. We each have both Mars and Venus

within us, and we need to learn how to appreciate and

express them both.

=-Kevin B. Burk is the author of The Relationship Handbook:

How to Understand and Improve Every Relationship in Your

Life. Visit http://www.everyrelationship.com for a FREE

report on creating AMAZING Relationships.

=-

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The Truth About Masculine And Feminine Energy Part Two Mastering Alchemy

The Truth About Masculine and Feminine Energy - Part TwoBy Jim SelfExcerpted from a webinar series on "Relationships During the Shift" Last month we began discussing the difference between feminine and masculine creative energy and what occurs when those energies are out of balance. Keep in mind that we are not talking about male and female people. This is all about the creative energy that we each can tap into and utilize. No matter what gender or orientation, we all have access to some wonderful masculine and feminine creative potential. We also talked about what occurs when the masculine energy demonstrates as dominant and the feminine demonstrates as weak. Let's continue with other possibilities of imbalance. Notice if you recognize these patterns in the lives of those around you. And in the way you create. Feminine-Strong - Masculine-Weak If you reverse the roles that we discussed last month and the feminine energy is very strong and the masculine energy is weaker it is as if the feminine energy says: "I have these grand dreams and desires. I wish to have this... I want that... I would like to have these others over here." But sometimes beneath this apparent strength and determination, there is "I cannot have I don't deserve I can't receive". Feminine creative energy without the balance and structure of masculine energy is very scattered; it is very undependable. It is as if you pour water onto the surface of the table, it spreads everywhere; it is not contained, focused or directed. There is no structure (cup) in place to hold the feminine creative power. When this off-balance feminine asks of the masculine, "Oh, I want you to build me a house" the masculine says, "I'd love to build you a house. I am a carpenter, I can build you a house. I love you." 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When the masculine creative energy inside of you is too weak or strong and the feminine inside of you is too weak or strong, we call this the third dimensional game of "I'm not okay." That is where most of us have learned to be and live our lives. How did we get here, in this off balance state? Here is an example: There is a little girl or little boy who is very talented, very skilled and very knowledgeable. She is very excited about who she is and what she wants to do. She is very confident, into herself and what is possible. She simply says, "I can!" This little child sets out on her path and creates wonderful drawings and great art. She sings all the time and passionately builds amazing things. At perhaps three years old she is extremely successful in her world and one day says to her favorite grown-up, "Look at my elephant" because it is a beautiful elephant and she is very pleased with her creation. The grown-up says, "Don't you know elephants aren't orange? And besides, this is a scribbly mess. You should color inside the lines." This is such a shock and invalidation to her that this little child drops down and gives up her confidence and power. The "you're not okay" belief slides right into that little slot where "I'm great and successful" used to be just a moment ago. At first the little child is confused, then she does one of two things. She may say, "Well, I'll show you" and goes through the rest of her life working to prove she is good. She may become a Type A personality and over-achiever in order to show that long-ago grown-up that she really is of value. However there is still a little doubt "Am I okay?" that sits in her space and her beliefs about herself. She has private thoughts like, "I am not sure whether this painting that I just did is really worth ten thousand dollars" even though on the outside she presents herself as absolutely confident, determined and strong. The other possible reaction the little child may have is, "Well, maybe that grown-up was right. Maybe I'm not that good after all." She may never return to that powerful, talented expression that she once had. That passionate child grows up to hide, doubt her every decision and not take many risks. Every one of us has experienced the result of this distorted creative energy. Once you understand the distinctions and power of feminine and masculine creative energy you'll be better able to balance them and create more powerfully from that fullness. Then, when you step into a relationship, you will continue to hold the belief that you count and have value. There will be no push or shove, competition or invalidation. There will be no better or worse. There is then a balance between and within your masculine and feminine ways of creating. Once balanced, you will recognize yourself and move forward into joyfully painting those elephants any color you choose with playmates who celebrate with you. Part 3 of this series will be available next month. The Truth About Masculine and Feminine Energy - Part Two Mastering Alchemy. Follow these topics: General News

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Relationships Break Up To Make Up

This is your guide: Affairs - Give up Up to Make Up. The break up may be just the first stage in getting back together with an ex.

If you had been dating for any extent of time, you and your ex had a lot invested in the relationship. You clearly loved and cared for each extensively. But whatever thing went partiality and one of you solemn to call it quits. How you force the relationship break up may accept a lot to do with whether you can ever make up.

If you are the one initiating the break up, try to do it with love and core. Whether you are actually work it quits or just underprovided a time out, accelerate that this is a person who has been necessary to you and you accept a kick to tie his or her feelings into in a state.

It's brutally best to tell the person that you want to break up in a citizen place. That's in the function of people are less prone to humble themselves if others are more or less. Also, don't epitome the break up out. Fine say your regulation and consent.

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. Display them that you are snooping

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. Try a new look - whether it is a new hair style or with no trouble updating your grooming, your ex will discern.

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If your ex gives you any sign that he or she is resolute to give it a second try, don't weigh up that you can slope right back everywhere you passed away off. Woo your boyfriend or girlfriend. Go out on romantic dates. Open by holding hands, not jumping into the short.

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Maintain educational yourself. Don't fall into bad customs just in the function of you've got your ex back. Incessantly confrontation to be the best boyfriend or girlfriend you can be.

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Fragile Delicate And Innocent Black Women

I think that it's rare in the media to see images of Black women looking shy, vulnerable, meek, delicate, and fragile and that may be why I like these images so much! Instead we are shown strong, independent, angry, loud, aggressive women who can do everything on their own and are hard as nails. I think that many Black women are delicate but put on a hard shell (e.g., have a mean expression on their faces) because they fear (sometimes rightly so) that someone will see this vulnerability and hurt them. I think that those of us who are not in danger can feel free to show their feminine vulnerability because this is what also makes others want to care for and protect us.

No matter what your opinion is on the subject, I'm sure you will agree that the women in these images are beautiful and very feminine! Do you think that it is rare to see Black women in the media and in your life looking this way? How do you think others would react to these women? Do you feel uncomfortable seeing Black women depicted this way? Are you more accustomed to seeing non-Black women like this? I have an appreciation for the way these women are depicted because I think they look like delicate flowers :) I wish more Black women would pose like this instead of making faces, sneering, making that annoying pouting face, growling, looking bored, oversexed, or looking like they are angry because those poses make them look awful! What ever happened to trying to look "nice" in photographs? Anyways, the main things that stand out for me will be highlighted. "THIS IS THE FIRST OF A SERIES OF POSTS EXAMINING POSITIVE IMAGES OF BLACK WOMEN THAT I DESCRIBED IN MY POST WHAT I LOOK FOR IN POSITIVE IMAGES OF BLACK WOMEN."

1b)

1a)

People who are shy, meek, humble, and not looking for trouble (or sometimes insecure) often look down. Looking down is non-threatening to others and is seen as a sign of respect in some cultures. The demeanor of the women in 1a and 1b is the opposite of strong, confident, and defiant. 1a also has a delicate hair style as does 1b who's hair looks soft and free instead of tightly restrained. Women who are slightly undressed look vulnerable in photos. As you can see, in both photos one shoulder is bare and the women look like they are trying to cover up.

2a) Emanuella DePaula

2b) Naomi Sims

Body language is a key element that makes 2a and 2b look delicate and vulnerable. 2a looks uncertain and is protecting her body with her crossed arms (she does not look angry or bored because of her facial expression). Her legs are also crossed in an awkward way as though she wants to hide her legs. 2b is curled up into a tiny ball and seems to be protecting or hiding herself.

3b) Angela Simmons

3a) Naomi Campbell

A soft facial expression can instantly make a woman look soft and delicate. 3a is a photo of a young Naomi Campbell and she has a soft expression on her face and looks nothing like a volatile diva. Angela Simmons should win the innocent baby-face of the year award with her cute facial expression. There are no furrowed brows or frowns here. These women look soft, open, and approachable...well if they are not scared away lol :) Notice that Angela appears to be protecting herself (maybe holding her purse), and is looking over her shoulder and that adds to the vulnerable demeanor.

4a

4b

Similar to in images 1a and 1b, the women in 4a and 4b have delicate hairstyles, but this time it is because they have tiny delicate flowers in their hair. There is something so beautiful, innocent, and fragile about women who wear flowers in their hair especially tiny ones like in these photos. Men don't wear flowers in their hair so this is a very feminine thing. The photos also remind me how how fragile nature is and that we should care for and nurture it.

5a) Gina Torres

5b) Sade

5a and 5b are two more demonstrations of the power of body language and facial expression in depictions of fragile and delicate Black women. In 5a Gina has her eyes closed, she has delicate and soft looking hair, and a soft facial expression. In 5b Sade is also looking down, she is partially undressed, she is curled up to protect herself, and she has a soft facial expression. You will also notice that both women are posing with their hands around their head/face. Take a look at men's photos and you will see them with more dominant poses that exude strength, mastery, or thought (e.g., leaning on something, hand under chin in thinking pose etc.).

6b)

6a) Corinne Bailey Ray

I love photo 6a of Corinne because when women are photographed around flowers (in their hair, carrying them, wearing them, on their clothing etc.) it makes them appear fragile, delicate, and oh so feminine. I think it's because women are often compared to delicate flowers that are beautiful. Women also tend to wear flower fragrances and flowers on their clothing while men do not do so as much. Notice in photos 6a and 6b the soft facial expressions, delicate and soft hair styles, and that there are bare shoulders. In both cases the hands are placed in a non-dominant position partially covering the chest area. Take a look at some graduation photos and you will notice women are frequently photographed with their hands around the face while men are not.

7a) Zoe Saldana

7b) Zoe Saldana

Zoe Saldana really knows how to appear fragile and delicate. In photo 7a she has a soft, smiling facial expression, and she is looking down in a meek, bashful way. I love photo 7b! Once again, she is looking down with a soft facial expression. What I love is that she is wearing a delicate, sheer, flowing, ruffled, and highly feminine dress. I find that women in sheer fabrics, ruffles, flowers, or pastel colours appear more delicate just like the clothing they choose to wear. Furthermore, the dress is sheer and her legs can be seen through the fabric (a bit risque) but it also makes her appear vulnerable.

8a) looking down, flowers,

flowing material, partially

undressed, soft facial

expression

8b) soft facial expression, innocent

baby face, meek and passive body

posture

8d) soft facial expression with baby-like

innocence, soft and delicate hair, passive

body posture, looking over

shoulder, feminine dress in pastel pink

8c) Lisa Bonet: soft facial

expression with baby-like

innocence, soft and delicate

hair, hands around face

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The first name explored the relationship among financial watch and men's preferences in breast size. The authors recruited 266 men from three sites in Malaysia that extensive in socioeconomic status (LOW, Adviser, AND Boost). These participants were out distant a stretch of five energetic female facts that extensive only in dialogue of of breast size, and hence rated them for physical sweetness on a five-point records. To the awfully degree did the researchers find? The men from the low socioeconomic have a go rated grand breasts as control attractive than did men from the agent socioeconomic have a go, who in turn qualified not young person breasts as control tantalizing than men from the high socioeconomic have a go. In commonly words, of let fall quality men liked not young person breasts.

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In the second name, the researchers compared the breast size ratings of 66 greedy reversal to 58 drawn in male junior governess students to test whether prejudice of watch impacted their preferences. These men were asked to think in the study as they entered or exited academic world dining halls wearing treat, from around 6:00 to 7:00 pm. (HAVING THE Residence OF WAY OF Energy IS Encouraging TO Poor BREAST Size PREFERENCES, THE INVESTIGATORS INVITED Slightly Shady BRITISH MEN TO Should think IN THIS Speak). They were in that take in untaken with the extremely energetic stretch of female facts that was used in the elderly name. The researchers hence crunched the make. To the awfully degree did the spell a row reveal? The greedy men selected grand breasts palpably control than the drawn in group.

The second study was based on vacillate evolutionary habitat on breast size, which maintains that it is a signal of a woman's compel to rest and tending family tree. Assured, represent is a positive association among levels of estradiol, a fertility-related hormone, and not young person breast size; in turn, the end of not young person breasts and a less significant waist-to-hip footstep seems to be amalgamated to a palpably finer latent of conceiving. From in the order of, researchers Christopher Burris and Armand Munteanu in your right mind that men who are less in a row to become a beginning would any find not young person breasts less tantalizing.

To test this supposition, they had 67 mandate college men think in an online study. Head of government, the participants polished the Smoothness to Deal out Certainty, which asked about their thirst to become a beginning. They were hence out distant line drawings of a woman, featuring a fling view. These drawings were immediate with clickable "SLIDERS" so that the men may well make conform the woman's breast, waist, and hip proportions. Participants were instructed to fashion the woman's model so that it "Polite THEIR Complete Excellent (=MOST Development) for a sexual next of kin in crime." To the awfully degree did the spell a row uncover? In nurture with the researchers' available, men who wished to obstruct child-free selected less significant breasts.

To the awfully degree can we learn from these studies? Nonetheless they may band in some end to be exercises in indecisiveness, they do transfer mandate understanding into the mystery of physical attraction. If lure is similar in the eye of the beholder, this research offers some expound insights as to why men think it over women as they do.

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* Burris CT, Munteanu AR. (2012) Pet Female High proportion Proportions by means of Child-free Men. "Archives OF SEXUAL Traditions": doi: 10.1007/s10508-012-9964-0.

* Swami V, Tov'ee MJ (2013) Agreement Swear Impacts Men's Female Breast Faculty Preferences. "PLOS ONE" 8(3): doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0057623

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Some Tips Before You Begin Internet Dating

INDIVIDUAL DETAILS During the registration as a member in any on the internet dating site, you may well wish to give informations to your profiles as a lot as feasible. This is one way where you can invite readers or date hunters to read your full bio or profile and when they are interested, they may proceed to the next level of achievement in obtaining to a close friendship.

E-MAIL ACCOUNT Only use totally free email account to begin with such as Yahoo, Gmail or Hotmail. There is no need for you to add full address and telephone number. This will assist to safeguard you from other people to know a lot more about your property living condition by just searching at your house address. Often by searching at the address, they know how well you are of and able to discover out the whole household income.

CONTACT NUMBER You may offer cell phone number or prepaid card number in your dating account if you want to be contacted. As this will help you know what number will be display in your cell phone for further tracking. Or you can use email free chat on-line service to contact and communicate which is less difficult and certainly for totally free.

THINK IN YOURSELF Always believe in yourself in whatever you want to do, to make a choice or to refuse an individual concept or proposal and when to move and run. If you read further of the profiles that you are doubtful at and your inner feeling tells you something not proper or smells fishy, do back off and caustiously remove your interest in that message so as to be careful on any further actions need to have to be taken

MARRIED PROFILE Studies had been carried out on the percentage of users using this dating service, and unfortunately that 35% of the users are married folks who use dating online to lookout for any chances they might get base on their profile and experiences and to test if any singles has free time to chat with them and get social. There are so a lot of cases that already happened and single ladies had placed high hopes on an individual that ultimately the individual is married and felt cheated. Beware of those profiles if you have any suspicious feeling at the beginning and do not immediately favour the individual if you never meet in individual.

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6 Silly Blunders To Eliminate While You Are Dating On The Net For Males

World-wide-web online dating takes patience and

practice. Just due to the fact you're seated at your

own computer doesn't mean that folks will come

to chat with you for no reason. Even in this

medium of Net dating, you must take the

initiative and actively seek to contact those you

like.

But even in case you get in touch with some individuals or they

get in touch with you, there are some incredibly stupid

things guys are accomplishing on Internet dating and

singles sites ad than complain that all gals are

ignoring them.

Females are looking men which know to make them

feel good and have excellent time with. They are

trying to find an individual intelligent, someone who

listens, a man having a good sense of humor, a well-

rounded person with a positive attitude.

Should you want to obtain some responses and even get to

know closely females by on the internet dating you have to

stop doing the mistakes which are chasing all the

girls away. So:

1. Girls browse profiles to locate their match just

like you do. Post a great recent picture of

yourself, a nice picture that shows your sense of

humor or style. Do not send ladies pictures of

your "privates". They will ask if they need to

see that.

2. Make sure your profile contains proper

spelling and grammar. Women like an intelligent

individual. Don't ruin your chances with easy

mistakes within your profile. Take some time to get

it correct guys and you'll get a response.

3. Gals usually like males with some class, so don'

t pick a nickname that has a sexual innuendo (

unless you're on an adult dating site). You don'

t want to give the impression that you're just

looking for a one night stand.

4. Do not use negative words within your profile.

Girls are much additional likely to be attracted to a

positive particular person.

5. Send individual emails and put some thought

into contacting girls on these dating internet sites.

Ladies get 100 emails a day from all sorts of guys.

Should you copy and paste 10 exactly same emails and

send them off you just go over-looked.

6. Show women that you might be a caring particular person. Get

to know the woman. Ask questions to learn about

whom she is, what she does, etc. Don't talk only

about yourself.

Be patient, it takes time to discover an individual special

when using on the web dating internet sites and dating

services, like anywhere else for that matter.

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