Breathing Room

ALONE TIME WHEN DATING

One of the biggest concerns when new couples begin to date offline is time spent together. Whether you are talking to your dad or next door neighbor they will tell you how much time you should spend together after first meeting someone. It begins to become stressful and a question on everyone's mind. Do I need more alone time?! Our we spending to much time together? Is this going to affect our relationship in the long run?

The first thing I would think about is how long have you known each other? If it has only been a couple days and your asking yourself this question, then yes you need to either slow it down big time or you are 18 and just getting the hang of this so called "dating thang". Secondly, what are you really trying to get out of this relationship, or is it even a "relationship"? One of the biggest confusions between daters these days is what they want and it is a very important topic to discuss. Are you lovers, friends with benefits, or just exploring the water?

THE TIME IS RIGHT

Once you are sure you are in this relationship for a reason then it is time to handle this situation. Be sure no to listen to others since everyone can give advice on anothers relationship but few can hangle marriage successfully! Think about how much time you are spending with your partner now. Well, what do you think? How many hours a day are you together? Or better yet, how many hours a week are you apart? Do you both work together also!?

Time for a change If you begin to feel over whelmed it is probably time to change your dating habits. Just think even married couples dont spent 24 hours a day with their loved one, it just doesn't happen! So don't worry everything's find and your relationship can still work. Try to spend more time with friends and family and then you will begin to enjoy the time you spend more and more with your partner because it is "special". This will make your relationship feel better and leave you both room to grow and become closer to a successfull future together.

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